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Bit sad we won't have a tree

23 replies

Flamingoose · 04/09/2018 10:08

I love our tree. The decorations have been collected over the decades and are all special to me.

This year we'll put up the tree, put all the presents under it, and then 2 days before christmas we load up the car with presents and food and go and spend christmas in some fancy rental house. I'm not very enthusiastic about the idea to begin with because it's just going to be a buttload more work for me in an unfamiliar kitchen without all my stuff. But anyway, it's a done deal. Deposit paid and it won't kill me for just one year.

But what about the tree? I feel sad that it will be at home looking all nice but alone and ignored on Christmas day. And we won't even have a tree on Christmas day. Can't take it with us. No idea how we're going to fit everything in the cars as it is.

Any ideas?

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marmiteloversunite · 04/09/2018 10:11

You might find that the rental house has a tree anyway if you are paying a lot of money to stay there at Christmas?

HappydaysArehere · 04/09/2018 10:12

Can you buy one of those small, ready decorated trees just as a gesture to bring in the atmosphere of Christmas. Also gather up some cards! Hope you have a great Christmas.

Disfordarkchocolate · 04/09/2018 10:13

I've only been away once for Christmas, they had put up a tree. Worth asking, perhaps they can supply one and you can bring some decorations?

ApolloandDaphne · 04/09/2018 10:21

We rent out a house and at Christmas we put up a tree.

drspouse · 04/09/2018 10:34

How about an alternative tree like a wooden painted slot together tree (we have a tiny one) or a branch in a vase, you can put some decorations on that but it isn't a hassle to get rid of (or get hold of!) in the same way.

BiddyPop · 04/09/2018 11:11

Could you put a few fir branches into a vase (ask a florist local to your rental to get the branches on 24th, or even on 23rd if you will be there early enough, or a Christmas tree supplier if they would still be open at that stage) and just hang a few decorations from that?

Bring a string of fairy lights and put those up to help decorate.

Window clings also take up very little room in a car and can help make a rental quite festive.

And if you are going making proper Christmas dinner in an unfamiliar kitchen, really really think hard about those tools that you ALWAYS use and whether you want to bring a few key ones with you. (We rent frequently, including at Christmas (although we host a party on 26th of nibbles and don't need to cook the actual turkey dinner), and I have a "self catering (and now camping) box" that is always ready to go with tools that I always want and regularly notice are not there in rentals).

The main contents of that box are:
SHARP knife (I now have a small paring knife, and a medium chopper, both with blades in covers to prevent cuts when rooting in the box)
Vegetable peeler
Corkscrew! and bottle opener, and a bottle sealer as well (we often have a half used bottle to save for tomorrow)
Tin opener
A decent wooden spoon
Small spatula
Pair of Silicon oven mitts
A set of cheap ikea plastic tools - whisk, tongs, serving spoon etc
Small chopping board
Washing up brush
A small cheese grater

And some consumables that I replenish when I get home (whatever has been used up):
J cloth
Travel bottle (100ml) of washing up liquid
Plastic pot scrubber thing (I add a new one for each trip)
Washing powder tablets (3) and dishwasher tablets (at least 6, more if the trip is long)
Small roll of black sacks and 3 small white bin liners
1 emergency loo roll
3 pocket packs of tissues
250ml bottle of olive oil
Salt and pepper mills (the glass type with the mill on top from the supermarket)
Ketchup sachets (leftovers from McD's or Burker King trips) (mayonnaise/vinegar/mustard etc sachets if I get any)
(I also used to bring some sugar sachets from coffee shop trips, but no one uses sugar in our house so we don't bother anymore)
Roll of cling film and roll of tin foil
Handful of sandwich bags (useful for mixing things and marinating things as well as storage in fridge etc or for picnics)
The remains of the box of ice-cube bags - there isn't always an icecube tray but the bags are handy for those rare uses
Box of matches, and 3 instant firelighters in packets
3 nightlight candles (can light them on saucers if no other option around, once small DCs are not running around)
A torch
A few spare batteries - usually just AA, AAA (and D for the portable radio we bring)
Sellotape, a pen and small notebook
And 2 hand towels and 2 tea towels for the kitchen, that get washed and put back in general use (rather than the box) when we get home

And don't be afraid to make life easier - paper napkins and some disposable serving dishes, plastic cups/glasses, extra kitchen towel, pre-grated/pre-sliced cheese etc.

I've made up cake mixes and cookie mixes some years before travelling - weighed out the ingredients into sandwich bags, and out them all together in a larger sandwich bag as "Chocolate cake" or "Cookie mix" or "Pancake mix", and just brought the tin needed. A baking sheet is usually very useful for sausage rolls and other nibbles anyway, or part baked bread, as well as cookies. All you need is a large bowl, wooden spoon, and measure out any wet ingredients to be able to turn out homebaked goodies.

And you can probably do some things at home before travelling as well - things like herb butter can be chopped and mixed together into a log in some greaseproof paper, cookies or meringue bases for desserts can be pre-made and transported etc.

Are you doing it all yourself, or will others turn up to pitch in? Can you pre-order a grocery shop local to the rental, either to collect after you arrive, or (better yet) be delivered?

Think through the menu beforehand, and list EVERY SINGLE THING you need for it. Including salt and pepper, specific herbs, butter or oil, stock or gravy powder or your secret ingredients....EVERYTHING for EVERY course of the main meal, and other things you normally love (so a lime for the G&Ts, or capers to go with smoked salmon, or DH's favourite flavor crisps to nibble on while reading on Boxing Day...). Then develop a master list of everything you need, and how to get it there (online order, bring in the car, shop when you get there, ask other guests to bring...).

Enjoy - it can be fun, once you think about it in advance and do that planning piece!

Sorry this is so epic and off topic to your question Xmas Blush I just love Christmas whether at home or travelling.

soberexpat · 04/09/2018 11:33

We are away on holiday from the 22nd this year...will be driving for 5hours and then in a hotel....so I don’t think we will have a tree this year at all. I love a real tree and can’t justify the expense (they are 100 gbp here, I live overseas).

I’m thinking of getting a small ore decorated one and hanging baubles etc around the house until we go...

ziggiestardust · 04/09/2018 16:29

Everywhere I’ve been away to at or around Christmas has had a tree; even the tiny cottages! Definitely call ahead and find out!

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 05/09/2018 19:38

We rented a big place 2 years ago - family coming from abroad so 12 of us - there was a very nice real tree already up when we arrived. We did take some other decorations and made the place very festive.

We put up our own tree at home earlier than usual in order to be able to enjoy it before and after - we were away for a week.

I did ask beforehand whether there would be a tree - yes - you may well find the same, and could take some of your own decorations to add to it.

HollyBollyBooBoo · 06/09/2018 04:40

@BiddyPop that list is amazing! Shamelessly stealing it for our holiday in October!

Iamagreyhoundhearmeroar · 06/09/2018 07:57

Jesus, Biddypop, that list is awesome. You sound seriously sorted, respect.

Bullnoway · 06/09/2018 08:01

When we did this I spent the same money on two small trees - while we were home, I had one in the kitchen and one in the living room. Then I took one away with me. Worked v well.

MorrisZapp · 06/09/2018 08:05

Holy shit. That list is... very grown up!

Pinkyyy · 06/09/2018 08:10

Maybe have a walk into the local town/village where hopefully there will be a nice tree? Maybe take some paper decorations with you that will fit it the car but will make the place feel more festive. Christmas away is different but the tree doesn't make the day- don't let it get you down!

sashh · 06/09/2018 08:11

Do you normally keep your tree until twelfth night?

Last year some food banks distributed trees, would donating it (not the decorations) make you feel any better?

One year my parents couldn't afford a tree so my mum got a branch and we spray painted it silver, OK it was 1973, and we made some new decorations eg match box wrapped in foil with string to make parcels, you could do something similar in your rental. Take a decoration each.

BiddyPop · 06/09/2018 08:22

My list is based on bitter experience over years of renting houses - and slightly amended by useful things for camping. It is ott but makes me happier going somewhere, knowing that I can make what I want on my holidays! Not what landlords grudgingly provide for...

DemocracyDiesInDarkness · 06/09/2018 08:30

That's what I was thinking Morris I will literally never be that grown up as long as Iive!

BiddyPop · 06/09/2018 08:40
Xmas Blush
Flamingoose · 08/09/2018 04:35

Just got back to this thread. Biddy - that list is fantastic and I really appreciate you taking the time to share it.

I really need to get my head in the game. I'm working full time up to the 22nd this year. We drive to the rental on the 23rd. Disastrous. Must MUST plan ahead. Have to move house next week though. And trip across the world. Then home for Christmas planning.

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AnnieAnoniMoose · 08/09/2018 04:49

Moving next week.
Trip across the world.
Working until the 22nd.
Driving up on the 23rd.
Going to a rental when you don’t want to.

...you’ve got bigger Big Girl Pants than me and whoever was dragging me there would be sorting out Christmas Dinner, a real tree & decorations 😡

...except they wouldn’t because I’m a control freak and I would sort out the tree, decorations & nibbly food I like. They would be sorting out a ‘proper’ Christmas Dinner if they wanted one though because I don’t care enough about it to cook it —at all— in a strange kitchen.

I would message whoever you’re renting it from this weekend to check arrangements about the tree, then it’s one less thing to think about.

I hope it all goes well!

yakari · 08/09/2018 04:50

I'm in awe of BiddyPop - absolute respect.
And just wish owners of rental properties would find this thread and take note Wink

clairedelalune · 15/09/2018 23:01

Buy a tree and stick it on the roof of the car. If you are ever in southern Germany around Christmas, the motorways are packed with people heading to the alps with a tree strapped to the roof!

EmilyRosiEl · 16/09/2018 23:13

I feel the same! We're going away for a second time this Christmas. There are lots of things I'm looking forward to about it but I do love Christmas at home and can't help but miss our own tree and traditions.

I think we might have a pre-christmas celebration at home on 15th December or something so that we can enjoy the tree and the usual Christmas traditions.

Most holiday rentals do seem to put up trees, although obviously it's not quite the same!

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