My goddaughter, at 12, wanted a particular doll & clothes etc (not a baby doll, but not a barbie doll either, I can’t remember what it was called now - it was a few years ago) and her Mum (a very close friend, more like a sister) said she wasn’t wasting money on it as she felt she wouldn’t play with it for long) she bought her clothes, make up etc. I bought her the doll and clothes because I think we force kids to grow up too quickly, she wanted the doll, so I bought the doll and clothes etc. The following year she asked if I would buy a new outfits for the doll. She’s 15 now and loves making (sewing & knitting) stuff for the doll. I still buy her things to do/play with, the ‘younger’ things she wants.
Her brother is 12, he’s still all about toys.
13 yo here still loves toys, she’s never liked dolls, but she still loves soft toys, board games, Lego, slime etc. I’d buy her any toys she wanted.
(All the others I buy from are much older or much younger)