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8 month old's first xmas

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sirlee66 · 29/08/2018 15:20

Hi everyone.

I'm a FTM without much experience of babies/young children.

DS will be 8 months old for Xmas. I was wondering if anyone could tell me what to expect.

I'm expect it will be just another day for DS but I'm really excited about finally having a family for Christmas so don't want to feel a bit deflated if it's not that magical first Christmas you see in films.

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dinosaurkisses · 29/08/2018 15:36

Well, you're setting your hopes high expecting a magical anything with an eight month old!

At that age, DD had properly developed her own personality, and loved seeing the extended family and being made a fuss of, which was great.

On the flip side, she could get very grumpy when tired and the business of Christmas with all the faces and excitement from everyone can be really tiring for them, especially when the entire family wants a cuddle!

Ricekrispie22 · 29/08/2018 17:30

Tbh I quite enjoyed having the excuse of having to BF my DS whenever the PILs or DM became a bit too overpowering! "Just got to nip upstairs for 20 minutes!"

Ricekrispie22 · 29/08/2018 17:31

I was a bit miffed that my DS enjoyed playing with the wrapping paper more than his actual presents.

Confusedbeetle · 29/08/2018 17:43

It is a stressful time for babies. Too many people, too much fuss. The wrapping paper is the only good bit. Expect nothing. In a few years time, you will be cursing Christmas and all the expectations. Rice krispie, I used to do that too

NemoRocksMyWorld · 29/08/2018 19:28

I would say have a lovely Christmas but keep it low key. I love Christmas so much, and I got so excited about ds's first Christmas (he was seven months). He picked up on my excitement ..... And then got overwhelmed and cried for the whole of Xmas dinner! Also don't buy loads. You end up wrapping it all, then unwrapping it, and wondering why you bothered! I always thought it would be nice (if DH was on board) for you to get and wrap a few bits for baby and him to get and wrap a few bits and you open each others bits iyswim. Then at least you aren't undoing your own work!

BiddyPop · 30/08/2018 09:31

We didn’t wrap DDs presents that first year. We hid them under a blanket in the sitting room, and after we had fed her breakfast, we let her in and just pulled off the blanket. That worked well, even if she was quite confused at first.

You can get a nice Christmas outfit- an elf or Santa or something nice. A onesie type is more practical (and usually more fun and casual) than a posh “good dress” or good trousers and shirt type outfit. And be prepared that it won’t last (food, poo, someone else spilling something...), so have more nice but clean outfits ready to change into if necessary.

It’s a nice time to start traditions like reading Twas the night before Christmas as a bedtime story on a Christmas Eve. Or getting a decoration for the tree - whether that’s just for the first year or an annual event.

At 8 months, I think dd was starting to “help” baking - would wear her apron and could mix an egg with a fork, or stir flour and cocoa powder together, or spoon sugar into the weighing scale - but under strict supervision and with a helping hand on the fork/spoon (and me being prepared to clear up much messier kitchens afterward). Might be big enough , if they’re doing play doh cutting and rolling play, to roll and cut cookies in the same way. But the results of their efforts are strictly for Mum and Dad, or the bin, and only ones that you do are for visitors.

And just enjoy playing music and dancing round the kitchen together, without expecting it to be magic all the time.

Redgreencoverplant · 30/08/2018 16:25

Definitely go low key and don't expect too much. If DS hadnt had a chest infection I think his first Christmas would have been nice but it wouldn't have been magical. He will be almost 3 this Christmas and I can feel the first bits of magic as he is asking lots of questions about Christmas and I think will really enjoy it this year :)

dingdongdigeridoo · 30/08/2018 17:07

DS was about this age on his first Xmas. It was lovely to have the family together. Just don’t expect too much! He liked the attention, playing with tissue paper and boxes, and the flashing Xmas lights. Wasn’t so keen on the Santa visit (mostly for his older cousins) or the long Xmas dinner. I had to take turns with DH to eat.

RidingMyBike · 30/08/2018 17:30

Don't set your expectations too high and try to stick to usual routine re things like mealtimes and bedtime as that can help avoid them getting too overwhelmed. Also don't get them too much stuff as they'll have no idea what's going on.

NonJeNeRegretteRien · 31/08/2018 22:37

Us too, our DD will be 6mos. I’m so excited, I’ve bought her presents already and ordered her stocking.

I know she won’t know or give a hoot but I can’t wait! 😂

sirlee66 · 01/09/2018 02:33

Thanks so much for your replies, everyone!

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BradleyPooper · 01/09/2018 02:39

Do a cute outfit, take lots of photos of a short unwrapping / paper ripping session, then focus on his usual routine (nap, feed etc). He won't know what's going on, you'll have photos to treasure and you should get to enjoy your day too without trying to cope with a baby missing his routine. Tbh, first Christmases aren't all that, you'll have loads of better ones with him as he grows up.

INeedNewShoes · 01/09/2018 02:45

DD was 8 months at Christmas. She loved being at my parents with lots of family around but also was quite unsettled about going to sleep (unusual for her and probably because there was so much going on).

On the day itself she ended up napping during Christmas dinner as it had got so late which I was a bit disappointed about but she'd reached the point where she just needed to be asleep!

She needed a lot of help opening presents but did enjoy the packaging a lot! And a couple of new toys were a hit.

I would say it was a nice first Christmas but had my expectations of the day been high I can see that it might not have lived up to them.

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