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Zero waste Christmas - anyone with me?

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drspouse · 29/08/2018 12:49

Or nearly...
My DCs (especially the older one who has SEN and Jan birthday) get very overwhelmed with too many presents and too many sodding Christmas parties
I'm trying to cut down on waste myself and drag the family with me.
I am going to try and make some Christmas basics (pudding, mince pies) and not get loads of packaged foods in. DH is on board with eating more normally and fewer presents!
Anyone got any tips? We usually give presents to adults who don't have children at home (maybe 4-5 of them) and then exchange children's gifts with about the same number of families.
I could make chutney or damson gin but most of the adult gifts need posting.
Anything kid-pleasing in that category? Last year I got books so that's easy to do again but any easy makes?
For family members DD would be happy with clothes/books and DS crafts or books and I can say "second hand or hand me down wrapped up is FINE". Not really for friends but there aren't so many of them.
I can't ask friends for money towards outings/memberships though and family will want to wrap something up (wish they wouldn't!)

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Alanamackree · 29/08/2018 16:57

Zero is such an intimidating number Grin I’m miles from zero but trying to cut back.

This year I’m asking people what they want rather than buying what I think they might like, and cutting out novelty gifts completely. And I’ve also got a few suggestions of useful things I’d like in case I’m asked.

I’m already pretty good at using up the leftovers so not worried about food. But I won’t be buying extra sweets and goodies as we get lots of gifts.

I don’t use disposable trays or kitchen roll now. Having had a few crisis Christmases I won’t say I won’t use pre-packaged sides but it’s not plan A.

I also help the dc make gifts, and I’ve done a re-think about that. We’ll do baking and some plant gifts but nothing that involves glitter or turning things that could be recycled into landfill! We’re going to make some spring planters for the grandparents and we’ve potted up some strawberry shoots from our garden.

A lot of our decorations come from outdoors and get composted afterwards.

I love wrapping paper and anyway have lots of it to use up. I’m going to try wrapping without ribbons or tape you tube

I would love to cut back drastically on the dc’s gifts but I don’t really know how to manage their expectations. However, they don’t get huge amounts, and it isn’t tat. If they see stuff that they like when we’re out and about I snap a picture so that I can pass on suggestions to relatives who want to buy stuff. At least then it tends to be something they want rather than random bits. I try and steer them away from tat as much as possible and while we’re over run with lego and books they have a good second hand value.

I’m still using too much packaging and air miles ordering stuff online, not to mention the amount of packaging that food and gifts come with. I try, where I can, to avoid this in my normal shopping but it gets away from me at Christmas. And cost is a factor in it too.

In terms of child pleasing home made stuff baking and chocolate treats go down well. Chocolate dipped gingerbread men are yummy!

drspouse · 29/08/2018 17:02

Well yes, I agree, but "less"!

I like the idea of taking a picture of something they want! DS has seen a watch he wants (DD got one for potty training so now he wants one) so I'll see if a grandparent wants to buy that!

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Alanamackree · 29/08/2018 17:49

One of the benefits of taking a picture is that it ends the “I reeeeeeeally want one” conversations quickly. Smile

KingLooieCatz · 30/08/2018 15:18

I'm in.

I start noting wants and needs now, and avoid buying stuff that can be deferred until Christmas. DS is not a grabby in the least but at 9, he's not gonna get on board with getting a winter coat or novelty duvet cover for Christmas any more, which we have done in years gone by.

We had one year dominated by board games, so mostly made of and packaged in cardboard, and they actually get used.

I'll certainly have a word with DB about the add on bits and pieces that DS gets from them. One decent gift preferred.

We've already cut down a bit the adult we exchange gifts with. I often ask DB for I-tunes voucher, nothing actually exists, it's brilliant, and I listen to the music every single day and get a lot of pleasure from it.

drspouse · 31/08/2018 12:59

Have already thought of a couple of things: local children can get plants in recycled pots and those further away can get a gardening kit.
DD can have a jumper knitted by my DM and I'll firmly say one present only.

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Alanamackree · 31/08/2018 13:09

I found a gorgeous little tin bucket planter in a charity shop today which will be perfect to grow some herbs in for nana’s windowsill.

Hatstand · 01/09/2018 20:38

I'm in too, have made some pear chutney this week, first time so I hope it works! Found a basket of Brio for DD for £5 at the charity shop, eyes peeled for a few more finds. Last year I made reusable cloth wrapping paper and I have last year's cards ready for making tags. Looking forward to hearing about more ideas here Smile

ChristmasIsMyFavourite · 02/09/2018 07:29

We’re not zero waste but we’re very minimal.

My dcs will only get about one gift from us and some school supplies and treats from Santa (they no longer believe but we still pretend). We’ve completely moved the focus from gifts to family celebration.

We don’t do “Christmas meal” but we eat good food (although one dc has already suggested we go to a Vietnamese restaurant for Christmas dinner so we might).

Gifts for teachers is cash for the class collection and everyone else I aim for books or consumables (that I know they will use).

annandale · 02/09/2018 07:38

I will try...

I wonder about 'experience' presents, so an offer of dinner at my house or afternoon tea out. Unfortunately i can't think of anyone except my mother who would be kind enough to pretend that eating dinner cooked by me is a top treat...

I am happy to eliminate sellotape and will use cloth ribbon rather than curling ribbon - but am too clumsy for origami.

AnyFarrahFowler · 02/09/2018 08:01

I’d like to cut down too. DD is 1 in November and DS is 3 in January - and with Christmas in between the two, that’s going to be a lot of toys. And they already have so much. We have a small house and nowhere to put it all.

I was going to ask the knitters in the family for jumpers/cardigans for the kids. Books are always good. And I was thinking of asking the inlaws for National Trust membership for the year “so DS can use the two bikes you bought him!”

I like the idea of a box of balloons - that would entertain baby DD.

We have a plum tree in our garden so I might make jam and give that - will google how easy it is as I’m not fantastic in the kitchen!

drspouse · 02/09/2018 08:49

If we ask for experiences it's usually National Trust or swimming lessons, that sort of thing.
We try to avoid balloons because of the plastic - but I'm sure a box of newspaper would be just as much fun when you're 1.
Likewise if you make new gift wrap from fabric I think it has to be used like 1000s of times to be more environmentally friendly than paper. Not sure about ribbon vs tape!
We tend to reuse paper gift bags though I will make some upcycled fabric gift bags if I get round to it - for family only though as I want them back!

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Hatstand · 02/09/2018 11:26

Oops, should have said the cloth wrap was upcycled rather than new fabric! I think you can get paper tape but I've never tried it.

Alanamackree · 02/09/2018 12:24

I like the idea of a box of balloons - that would entertain baby D

Don’t underestimate the appeal of a box at that age. I had two shallow cardboard boxes that I kept for ages, that were used as beds, turned over as tables and cookers, on their sides as shops and a teddy house.
I kept planning to paint them to make them less of an eyesore but was too tired to be creative at that stage.

A box big enough to get into and close the flap over is the ultimate baby toy!

I wonder about 'experience' presents Maybe take the emphasis off the experience and think about it as a gift of your time and attention. In my family we tend to celebrate birthdays by going for a coffee or a meal; it’s a lovely way to catch up. When my dc were small and I had no childcare and was skint, I made cake and invited my siblings over for the coffee, or for dinner. Or they’d come to mine for and bring a take away.
I love that we do this, and I’d rather have a cup of tea than a present.

if you make new gift wrap from fabric I think it has to be used like 1000s of times to be more environmentally friendly than paper learned something new!

drspouse · 02/09/2018 12:53

Washi tape is paper, cute too.

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drspouse · 02/09/2018 12:55

(And I've seen it without plastic wrapping in the pound shop)

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sleepismysuperpower · 02/09/2018 18:27

sounds basic but last year i got some family members personalized cookies or chocolate bars, and they all went down very well. looks and comes across as thoughtful (as you have to add a message to be written on the item) but is not too expensive and does not have much waste as is edible. will link the company below if i can find it.

www.yumbles.com/ooh-and-aah/personalised-cookie-card.html?gclid=EAIaIQobChMI0omZ0uuc3QIVT7XtCh3dWg0fEAQYAiABEgLKB_D_BwE

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