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Frugal Christmas Presents - 11 yo DSD and 2 yo DD

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Battenburg1978 · 22/08/2018 12:20

Hi Mumsnetters,

I'm sucked in to the Christmas threads already! This year's Christmas needs to be super-frugal for us and I'm already worrying about how to do this. Usually I've gone fairly all out over Christmas, and because we don't have much family around, have gone to town with Santa presents and also presents to/from all 4 of us.

Any great ideas for bargain presents for an 11 y/o girl and 2 y/o girl? I'm planning to keep a close eye on FB selling in search of a bargain toy kitchen / other bits - it's also her birthday in December! Hoping I can find some nice 2nd hand items for her between now Christmas - she won't know the difference!

My main worry is finding nice gifts and stocking fillers for my 11 y/o DSD, would be so grateful for any ideas and at hoping that starting in August I should be able to get a few bits here and there to lessen the December spending. She understands that finances are tighter this year, but at the same time she's with us over Christmas and I'd like some nice/exciting presents for her to open!

Ideas so far:

Rose Gold Earring studs
Mermaid tail blanket (I'm a few years late on this one - any recommendations on where to buy?)
Fimo Jewellery making set
spare loom bands for her kit
usual pants, socks, tights in her next size up

If you have an 11y/o or a 2 y/o what are you planning for them for Christmas?

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Therunecaster · 22/08/2018 13:23

I have an 11 year old girl. She wants Slime, make up and spray in hair dye. On the studio Christmas site there is a great deal on a huge make up box for 9 pounds. I've easily paid 4 x that for similar ones.

JurassicGirl · 22/08/2018 13:41

Stocking fillers:
Nail varnish - Superdrug/Poundshop
Lip gloss - Superdrug /Boots
Lego blind bag - Tesco
Bath bombs - Supdrug etc
Themed Playing cards - Harry Potter? Ebay
Book - the works
Party Poppers - poundshop
Glow sticks - poundshop

Mains
Themed duvet set - Primark
Fluffy cushion - Primark
Dvd - Music Magpie
Slime kit - The Works

Does she do any sports/hobbies that you could by bits for (that you'd have to buy anyway like swimsuit/leotard/football boots/kit bag etc)

JurassicGirl · 22/08/2018 13:45

For the 2 year old i would get a large plastic storage tub & fill it with some second hand playmobil or duplo from facebook/ebay.

I did this for my ds2nd & 4th burthday & he loved it & still plays regularly with it & hs's now 6.

Also heard a few people mention getting a large cardboard box, cover it with wrapping paper & fill it with blown up balloons for a 'wow' present that could cost £1-2 😊

thaegumathteth · 22/08/2018 13:46

Aldi have a slime kit for £5.99 just now.

Alanamackree · 22/08/2018 14:26

For the presents to/from the 4 of you, would you consider setting a challenge like

  • they have to be home made
  • they cant cost more than £3
  • only bought in Poundland, etc
Spin it as a bit of fun or a challenge. imo kids like being able to give a gift of their own efforts. There are loads of crafty/ baking gifts that an 11 year old and 2 year old could do together too, if you want some ideas.

For the bigger gifts the bargain thread is essential reading!

Battenburg1978 · 22/08/2018 15:39

Thanks for all of these great ideas so far!

Alanamackree, if you have time I would love some ideas on craft/baking things the girls could do together.

Feeling so festive after reading so many Christmas threads. I've also just remembered I have a stack of books in the cupboard that I meant to give to people last year but didn't and also some festive Smiggle erasers (bought in more affluent times!) which can go into the Christmas pot.

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Alanamackree · 22/08/2018 16:15

I think anything that an 11 can do well and a 2 year old can safely join in with will work well. Cookies are great, as you can make the dough in advance if you like. The 11 year old might like to experiment with flavour combinations, and both can roll and cut out cookies.

Salt dough decorations would be good too. A two year old could press hand prints into circles, and cut out shapes with a cookie cutter. The 11 year old might like to make more complex patterns. or delicate patterns like pressing a doily into the dough.

if you melt chocolate and let it cool, and pop into a piping bag (with a knot!!!) a 2 year old can squirt in the general direction of a silicone tray and sprinkle hundreds and thousands around. The silicone trays are great because even at 2 you can get a respectable result. The 11 year old could put them in bags and tie ribbons and make little gift tags.

One year we made cardboard houses out of cereal boxes, painted them and glued cotton wool to the roof as snow. the 11 year old might be better at painting details on the house and the 2 year old could glue the cotton wool the roof.

microwave rice warmers - tie a tight knot in the toe of chidren's christmas patterned tights and cut with a pinking scissors. Fill with rice and scented oil. tie a knot at the top and cut with pinking scissors. Spooning rice is easy enough for the 2 year old to manage and the 11 year old can handle the knots and cutting.

tape strips on a jam jar, add glue and glitter and a votive candle

check pinterest for pinecone crafts. they can collect cones together, the little one could dip them in glue and glitter or paint them, and the older one could try something a bit more adventurous

if you get the two year old to fingerpaint using two colours that combine to make a third (like red and yellow, or blue and yellow but not red and green) it can be used as the base for other projects,

make gift boxes by cutting pictures out of last years cards, or wrapping paper and glueing onto boxes with pva glue

A gingerbread house could be split into a few different activities - opening and sorting out sweets into bowls (2 yr), spooning icing sugar into the blender (2 yr old), assembling the house (11 yr)

palmtree1 · 22/08/2018 16:20

Depends what your 11 year old is in to but I bought my son a wood pen (burns the wood) can't remember the proper name in Aldi for I think less than £10 and some wooden boxes / pencil case/ etc from Ebay / Amazon quite cheaply and it was the thing my football / computer game mad son really enjoyed and spent ages over Christmas using / practicing

CarrotVan · 22/08/2018 16:24

If you or DH are handy and have outdoor space then mud kitchens aren't that difficult to make - you can use old pallets for most of it, maybe an old sink or cheap metal bowl and some old pans/colander etc. If you ask on your local FB you'll get most of it for free.

If you crochet then you can make your own mermaid tail blanket quite quickly. You can often pick up yarn that would work in Poundland/ Home Bargains or charity shops.

If you're getting her earrings you could get her some other small jewellery bits and a jewellery box - again if you're crafty you can get cheap undecorated boxes from the Works or Hobbycraft (£2-3) and decorate them to suit her tastes

Or there's a lovely MDF three drawer box so you could decorate it and do nail stuff in one drawer, lip gloss, bath fizzers etc in another and jewellery in the third. It's only 10cm square so wouldn't need much stuff to look full

Festive cookie cutters or initials and make gingerbread

If you sew/embroider/cross stitch and she's shown an interest you could put together a sewing kit and teach her

A load of arts and crafts stuff (dirt cheap in Poundland/Home Bargains type places)

Again on the "if you're crafty" approach this is a fun idea and you could totally adapt it to suit their interests

Make your own tiny dolls house for the little one starting with something like www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0074H14PW/ref=asc_df_B0074H14PW55012934/?tag=mumsnetforum-21 this and then use wallpaper samples and offcuts of things to decorate it. If you scour charity shops and FB selling you might find a dolls house in need of TLC that you can redecorate

This is super cute for the little one. A box of travelling peg dolls. Very cheap to do yourself

nocutsnobuttsnococonuts · 23/08/2018 01:39

My daughter will be 10 this year so a bit younger. She loves stationary - the poundshops and the works are good for cute cheap bits. Often there's codes for the works. (I recently bought a colour your own sloth wind chime and mug and a dork diaries friendship kit) you could also look out for the back to school stuff being reduced, could get some bargains.

I got mermaid tail blankets in new look last year but I'm sure Primark had them too. Primark is fantastic for cheap but nice quality bits - I normally buy a fleece blanket each, duvet set, and character nick naks. My eldest loves pusheen and Harry potter so can often pick up lots of exciting things.

I've just discovered studio online, lots of personalised bits v cheap which might make a nice gift.

Could you buy a DVD from cex or second hand then put in a large popcorn tub (pound shop or eBay have them) with fav chocolates, microwave popcorn and fizzy drink. Amazon even had popcorn makers for around £4 the other day. Instant movie night hamper.

Look on Pinterest for homemade bath bombs - wrap up the instructions and ingredients in a nice box/basket. Or make them up/buy some and wrap with bath pillow and new towel with a design she would like.

Or a make up bag/box (Primark do lovely ones) with nail varnish, nail file, stickers to put on nails.

Adult colouring book and Sharpies. My dd spends hours colouring her Harry potter and animals books.

Have you seen the Christmas bargain thread, lots of cheap bits on there and ideas too.

giggly · 23/08/2018 23:20

Tesco have the big box of sharpies down to £10 . My dd 11 loves sharpies is always happy with drawing pads and sharpies.

Whatififall · 27/08/2018 15:04

Home bargains have reversible sequin mermaid tail blankets for less than £10.

Battenburg1978 · 28/08/2018 12:54

Sorry I haven't been back to this thread for a few days - thanks so much to you all for the ideas, feeling excited about Christmas once again (I love the festive season) and how we can make it special without wads of cash!

All the craft ideas are fab - I'm not much of a knitter but I might get inspired to at least maybe knit a scarf for my toddler!

Thanks again

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bookmum08 · 28/08/2018 13:12

Do you know what main present she will be getting from her mum? It would be good to get something that goes with it. For example if she is getting a Nintendo DS console then you get some games for it. Obviously I don't know your relationship with her mum but if it's an OK one then chat to her and co ordinate.
As for the 2 year - new play doh, new crayons, a beany toy of a pug with a santa hat and a packet of choc buttons!! (however the 2yr olds favourite thing will be that tag off a present with a picture of a robin on!)

sleepismysuperpower · 02/09/2018 22:05

you could try searching on sites like gumtree, ebay or preloved ( a lesser known site that is like gumtree- but there are some gems on there!) to see if you can find a bargain. you can even get unopened craft kits etc that people don't want for a fraction of the original price. I'll link some examples below, hopefully they won't have sold by the time you get a look!

www.preloved.co.uk/adverts/show/114452017/craft-kits-childkidadultcraftmakes.html?link=%2Fsearch%3Fkeyword%3Dcraft%2Bkit%26page%3D2

www.gumtree.com/p/baby-toys/craft-kits-3-different-self-contained-kits-all-brand-new-and-unopened/1310074763

www.ebay.co.uk/itm/PACKET-of-DIY-Make-Your-Own-STRETCHY-SLIME-KIT/173498914563?hash=item2865575703:g:UrYAAOSwdbZbaH8m

i also found a mermaid tail blanket:

www.gumtree.com/p/house-clearance/mermaid-tail-knitted-blanket/1311054635

RB68 · 02/09/2018 22:19

I find Wilkos good for stationery bits but also pre teen friendly home stuff like fuzzy blankets, lamps/lights or make up or bubblebath/bath bombs etc

The range for crafty stuff if she is into that. Do keep an eye on ebay too as most people will list stuff oct/nov with an eye to christmas.

Tiggles · 03/09/2018 07:59

My 10yr old loves writing and Harry Potter so he is getting Harry Potter scrabble. Drops fairly regularly to around £20 on amazon.

TeacupTattoo · 03/09/2018 22:25

An ice cream parlour for them - print out menus/ingredient lists for named ice creams that are to do with them/family (eg DSD Super-Duper Strawberry Delight/ Dad's Choccy-Woccy Suprise), put in box with cheap knickerbocker glory glasses/spoons/sprinkles/sauces/squirts cream/cherries etc and put lots of different tubs of ice cream in freezer too. They can make them for each other and the family. This was my best birthday present as a kid!!!

LeMesmer · 03/09/2018 23:53

If she likes Fimo you can buy a few individual packs (the small squares ) in lots of great colours to supplement the jewelry set. They have some really nice sparkly ones. DS likes crafty things and you can usually get some good stuff cheaply if you look around, last year I got him a paint your own mug set. Do you have a Tiger shop near you, they are great for that sort of thing. IKEA sometimes have good stuff as well. If she likes drawing Amazon have some really nice ‘grown up’ pencil sets and books for a very reasonable price. Have a search on Amazon for Klutz books/kits, they have some really nice crafty things.

Isadora2007 · 04/09/2018 00:41

Is she into make up or nails? I have a small gel nails starter set with a lamp etc that I would be happy to send you. It was an unwanted gift. It might be a bit grown up for her though... pm me if you’d like it.

ziggiestardust · 04/09/2018 14:20

I went into Smiggle and hammered their 5 items for £5 and also their general sale where you could pick pencils up for 30p etc. Definitely worth a look if you live near one. I bought across a few months and it’s built up to the point where I can basically fill a stocking with Smiggle stuff and match attax cards.

I always wrap up a selection box and pop it in; they’re super cheap! My mum did the same for me and that was probably the reason!

Kids are always impressed by a big, wrapped box. For your 2yo you could bring out the old MN favourite of loads of balloons wrapped in a box. If there’s a party shop near you, have them filled with helium the day before Christmas and then wrap them. I would have done this with my DS, but for the first 4 years of his life, he was scared of balloons!

Stuff they need; socks, pants, vests, tights, leggings... buy them cheap and pretty in Primark. By the tills in Primark there’s always little character sponges for 50p, mini makeup palettes for £1-£2, mini cleansers, lip gloss, nail varnish, hair ties and hair clips... Speaking of Primark; they always have character fleecy blankets. My aunt bought my DS one 3 Christmases ago and he refuses to let it go, he’s loved it to death and it’s always out in his room. Bulky too, so it looks impressive wrapped up.

Email your DC’s favourite companies (Smiggle, H&M, Lush, Sainsburys toy section) and tell them how amazing they are and how much your kids love their stuff (give an example) and how you could never shop anywhere else. My cousin did this and ended up with loads of £5 off vouchers for all sorts of places! I was absolutely gin smacked when she showed me! Definitely worth it if you’ve got the time as emailing is free, and if you’re tech savvy then mail merge it and use the same basic letter template and just change the store name and the example of what they love each time. Easy peasy.

Don’t forget the old staples in the bottoms of stockings/pillowcases; nuts, clementines, chocolate money. Cheap and stuff you would have bought anyway.

Check charity shops and libraries for book sales. You can get new/nearly new books for pennies. My MIL is on super friendly terms with our local charity shop and picked up a box set of the Horrible Science books still in cellophane wrapping for £3! She’d got on talking terms with the ladies and asked them to let her know if anything like that came in as her DGS loved the books and contstantly had them out at the library. They actually rang her when it came in!

Ikea has a lovely play wooden kitchen for around £40; my friend’s daughter had it and she painted it too, in the end I’d say it was more hardwearing and more attractive than my DS’ GLTC one. If I had another DC, I’d buy the Ikea one and paint it pretty colours myself, just like she did.

Keep an eye out for the toy sales; 3 for 2 at Boots and Sainsbury’s also usually have some kind of event on around the October half term.

Hope this helps!

Seafoodeatit · 04/09/2018 14:31

My 2 year old loves the pop it in the post game, by far her favourite thing atm.

needtogiveitablow · 05/09/2018 06:09

I definitely recommend Studio, they’ve got some great stuff that looks a lot more expensive than it is! Just picked up DS (4) a lovely personalised dressing gown for £4.99!! They have loads of pjs that can be personalised as well for less than £5

needtogiveitablow · 05/09/2018 19:33

Also worth mentioning if you have a Works nearby (they have an online shop as well), they have a 5 books for £5 offer with books for all ages as well as lots of crafty type gifts on a 2 for £10 deal - make your own jewellery, teach yourself nail art etc (apologies if I’m not up to speed with what 11 year olds like these days, I half expect them to be going off to magaluf with their mates the way things seem to be progressing!!)

AshenFaced · 06/09/2018 12:10

My 11 year old liked getting a sewing kit. The bits and bobs were mostly in a cheap beginner's set but put into a nice sewing box (not that much in Hobbycraft) it looked like a really nice thing. I bought her a set of fat quarters and printed off some project ideas from the internet.

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