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Letting go of the perfect Christmas/house

16 replies

Payfrozen · 24/12/2017 23:35

So sat with a G&T. Almost forgot DS's main present in car boot.

The living room is dusty. I didn't finish the laundry. Our bedding is frankly really in need of changing.

But fuck it. I've done my best and that is good enough.

Have a very happy Christmas everyone Xmas Grin

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lilydaisyrose · 24/12/2017 23:40

Me too. The cleaning is not done, except for the bathroom (which is in need of replacing so just cleaning off the worst of the grime really) and bedding needs changed and laundry is hanging all over the place, but I'm done. Santa has been for 3 children and there are presents and there will be food & treats galore.
After a super busy few weeks & months, everything has been working towards a lovely family day, just the 5 of us, tomorrow. I can now, finally, get excited! I don't drink but I'll clink my Appletise with your g&t, have a good one OP!

PaddingtonBearHardSprouts · 24/12/2017 23:56

I have two loads of washing in baskets which didn't get done under the pretence I ran out of softener I actually did. The house upstairs is a pigsty. Downstairs is acceptable to host 9 tomorrow until DS opens presents

I clink my Baileys with your G&T and Appletise

annandale · 24/12/2017 23:59

Dhabi, bless him, cleaned the floors but pretty much everything else is grimy. Oh well, merry Christmas [clink]

Payfrozen · 25/12/2017 00:08

Teens finally in bed. Doing Santa duties now after a bit too much gin

Merry, merry Christmas Glitterball

DH telling me I need to engage. CF

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Payfrozen · 25/12/2017 00:08

Teens finally in bed. Doing Santa duties now after a bit too much gin

Merry, merry Christmas Glitterball

DH telling me I need to engage. CF

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sweetsomethings · 25/12/2017 00:14

We still have one eight year old awake I'm dreading tomorrow now with the lack,of sleep

Bubba1234 · 25/12/2017 00:21

Ha! Love the first post in this thread. Sounds like we all did our best.
This year was the most unorganized year ever I am usually finished my xmas shopping early November. This year I was still deciding what gifts to choose for people today.
Upstairs is untidy for sure. Downstairs is ok.
I’m cooking for the first time ever this year & I’m buzzing. The first time in years I have looked forward to Xmas Xmas Grin happy Xmas guys enjoy your drinks 🍹

RubyFlint · 25/12/2017 00:24

We have an 8 year old awake too! I just so want to go to sleep now. Contemplating setting alarm for 4am so I can do the stocking etc then and sleep now.

RubyFlint · 25/12/2017 00:25

Merry Ch

RubyFlint · 25/12/2017 00:26

Oops Merry Christmas! 🎄

Frazzled74 · 25/12/2017 01:07

I forgot to buy potato’s! House is presentable in a shabby fashion! I will message my friends tomorrow and beg a few potato’s from each of them, until I have enough for 13 people! Plan b is chips for the dc’s, frozen mash for adults!

DramaAlpaca · 25/12/2017 01:13

Didn't get all the cleaning done, still have loads to prep for dinner tomorrow which will have to wait until the morning, only finished wrapping the presents an hour or so ago and didn't do it as neatly as normal thanks to being a bit squiffy after Christmas drinks at a friend's house. But it'll all be OK tomorrow, I'm sure.

Have a lovely day everyone.

workatemylife · 25/12/2017 01:58

Merry Christmas! I'm here, alone, with a drink in the semi-darkness of fairy lights, enjoying the peace and quiet, remembering my own childhood Christmases, missing my parents who are no longer with us, and realising that what I remember about Christmas was them, the excitement of Christmas Eve and Christmas day, laughter, games. I don't remember how clean the house was, and whether anyone had done any ironing all week. I hope that my DCs are building the same memories.

I started one of those 'fix everything by Christmas' threads at the end of October. Perfect Christmas, perfect house, perfect me (well, that was unrealistic, but a healthier me at least). It was useful, and I did manage a lot of decluttering, healthier eating, and good Christmas planning. But I still have a full basket of ironing, and I've been chasing my tail all weekend with stuff.

So that's that. I LOVE the preparation for Christmas, and I'm sad that it is all over. Not because there is more to do (there is, but realistically, like OP and others here, we're fine) but because it really has been loads of fun. Two DCs who enjoy it (almost) as much as I do, and advent has been a time of preparation in all kinds of ways. Santa has been, we have food to eat tomorrow, and we have each other. The fact that we also have ironing, cleaning, decorating and other chores to do doesn't matter.

Clink! (with my Santa teacup)

kitnkaboodle · 25/12/2017 02:08

Clink! With my second whisky glass! Wine

herecomesthsun · 25/12/2017 03:11

Hmm not just up to the woman in the house to sort everything out though it might feel like it!

Hope you all have a great Xmas xx

Wine
TammySwansonTwo · 25/12/2017 03:30

I have a real problem with this. I have toddler twins who are too young to know what Christmas is, plus I have ME and endometriosis and lost most of this week to a nasty eye injury and treatment that made me feel shit. Yet I still wasted energy I didn't have today cleaning our bedroom (why was that necessary?) and making an unnecessarily time consuming dinner. Need to let go of my inner perfectionist. Now stressing as I didn't prep the veg or tidy up the laundry downstairs plus I'm shattered as the boys have been tagteaming since 1am. Grr.

Hope you all have wonderfully imperfect Christmases - I will try!

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