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little 'christmassy' thinga that you might just do all year?!

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workatemylife · 02/01/2017 10:09

I am a self confessed Christmas enthusiast, and the beginning of January is always a bit of a uurrrgghhh time when all the festivities come to an end. This is the first day that it has all felt 'over'. I love Christmas Eve and Christmas Day (big kid inside never quite lost the magic) and enjoy a lot of the preparation and build up with DCs still at an age where nativity plays, carol services etc are part of the December diary. None of that would really work for the rest of the year! But some things might, and I've been thinking today about little Christmassy things and lessons that I want to carry on with in the coming weeks and months.

Baking and cooking with the DCs. We had a Christmas bake day after the school broke up for the holidays, and made a load of things to eat and share over Christmas. I would normally have been doing this myself in the week or so before, on the assumption that the DCs would find it dull, but not at all. We had a great day. So I'm going to carry on getting the family involved with food. DD wants to make dinner tonight!

Candles. I have candles in the loft that come out at Christmas, mainly matching our Christmas table decorations. It has been lovely to have candles burning in the house, and I'm going to keep on with this while the late afternoon and evenings are dark. Starting with a massive pillar candle from MIL, and anything left in the sales.

Family board games. Rubbish weather on a couple of days made us crack open some games that we've not played for ages. Not an every day activity perhaps, but I must remember that we have these things.

Meal planning. We were stuck in a rut in the autumn I think, with the same meals coming around each week and buying the same stuff out of habit. But I did a meal plan for the Christmas holidays and sat down and looked at some recipe books. We ate a lot of different things as a result. Obviously some things are best left for Christmas, but getting into the habit of not being in a habit as far as food goes would be good.

Bath night. I usually shower quickly in the morning, dress, and head to work. I liked having a couple of relaxing bubble baths in the last week or two, and this year I am going to use my Christmas smellies before we get to the next Christmas!

Flowers. We've had a small bunch of flowers in the hallway and they have brightened up the place and stopped DH dumping all his random papers on the table! Might try to keep this one going as well.

De-cluttering. Did this very quickly a week before Christmas so that relatives had space to sit and sleep. But it has been nice to have cupboards with space in them, and to be able to find stuff. I want to stop the accumulation of clutter, let go of homeware that is battered beyond use, stop hanging onto store cupboard ingredients that are fossilised, and DCs clothing that is too small or worn out, as well as my own. Last year I did that thing of turning hangers around in my wardrobe once I had worn something, and there was enough stuff that never got turned by the end of the year to fill a bag for the charity shop and put some items on Ebay in December. Mainly things of mine that didn't fit after weight gain and weight loss, and actually getting rid of them was satisfying (although I could do with some baggy trousers after eating a bit much this last week!)

Running. Maybe this is a new year resolution rather than a Christmas thing. I took the DCs to a fun run just before Christmas and was ashamed at how hard I found it. Time to dust off the trainers!

2017 looks busy now! Is there anything that you've been doing over Christmas that might carry on into the new year?

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Ihearthickson · 14/01/2017 21:18

We 'celebrate' occasions all year round, to incorporate the best bits of Xmas. For example, Valentine's Day or nearest weekend we have a family party, lots of red table decorations/napkins etc, (you can even get Valentines crackers from supermarkets) family dinner, candles, heart decorations, party games and we do similar themed occasions year round (Halloween is another thing we decorate for). Kids love it and you can make as much, or little effort as you like.

TooStressyForMyOwnGood · 14/01/2017 21:28

Oh brilliant, I forgot about Valentine's Day (bad wife)! Might decorate :)

workatemylife · 16/01/2017 14:28

I'm still here and trying to fulfil all those bold statements that I made in the OP!
Did some baking with the DCs at the weekend, so that's one done (and yet more winter weight gain)
Candles are still burning, but I've nearly finished the bag of tealights that has been at the back of the cupboard for ages. I could buy some more, or maybe look for a bargainous pillar candle or two. Not sure where to look though.
Flowers sitting on the table, festive zoflora still going.
Bath night successfully accomplished. I am deaf to the chatter coming through the door. Board games switched for Lego this week. I still have no idea what we are building.
Meal planning a bit hit and miss, but better than it was. And with candles around, nobody can see what is on the plate.
Dropped a (small) bag of decluttering success off at the charity shop at the weekend. Either they have sold all the stuff that I donated before Christmas, or binned it on the basis of a total lack of style Blush
I have not put my trainers on or run anywhere.

Valentines day, you say. Hmmm. Sounds like a good excuse for more candles, nice food, flowers......

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SpringerS · 11/02/2017 13:57

So those of you who do Valentines day as a family holiday, what do you do? I'm going to do it for the first time ever and I'm thinking pink/red tablecloth and flowers on table. Waffles and strawberries for breakfast and a small toy (from attic stash) for DS. That should make it a bit fun.

workatemylife · 14/02/2017 00:18

I caught myself singing 'It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas' yesterday! It was cold weather, we had people over for Sunday lunch, and I had napkins out on the table, candles lit, the kind of soft drinks that we don't usually buy, and cooked roast chicken, roast potatoes, nice veg etc. I had a flashback to Christmas dinner!
Hi springer. I don't usually do a big Valentines family thing, but I have some little chocolate hearts to share, a have planned a nicer meal than we would usually have midweek, partly because (travel permitting) we will have family visiting. Not exactly Christmassy but ticks off a lot of the things on my list. Breakfast waffles sound lovely. Where do you live and can I come over?!

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purplecabbage · 15/02/2017 14:39

Great thread! Along with several of you: candles and fresh flowers in the house as a regular thing.
I suppose part of Xmas is that feeling of specialness and doing special things, and instead of reserving that for special moments, to generally upgrade!
Another home based one - presenting food with more care and attention, using nicer tableware and paying attention to settings and table decor. I find this v soothing and relaxing and suspect it makes others behave better at the table!
Embracing seasonality and the festival seasons a little more thoroughly - and consciously - ie not relapsing into pure consumerism but being generally more thoughtful about it as an opportunity for family time, to create special memories and even traditions. Much as our ancestors would have!
Look forward to reading other suggestions on this thread - thanks!

NotTheBelleoftheBall · 15/02/2017 15:49

We #whispers# have Summer Christmas each year...

It all started one June, DH and I were in our way back from holiday and the idea of coming back to overcast London filled us with dread. So we planned a lovely roast dinner for our first night back - over the years this has upgraded to: a roast (with all the Christmas trimmings) l, sending each other Christmas cards, Christmas songs and films, buying each other a little gift, mulled wine, a hamper, a box of Ferraro Rocher, decorating the kitchen... putting up the Christmas tree. We take it quite seriously!

I bloody love Christmas 🎄

73kittycat73 · 15/02/2017 20:49

That sounds amazing NotTheBelleoftheBall. Smile

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