Hi all
Looking for some advice.
DH, me, my 2 teenage dc and 8yo dss in our house.
Dss lives with granny but spends alot of time with us all wknd some evenings. He see's his dm one day every other wknd.
Christmas has normally worked that dss sees his dm on Xmas eve. Sleeps at granny that night then comes to us for most of the day.
I lost my dad to suicide recently and we always had him here on Xmas day.
This year I want to do something different as I think being here will be too painful.
So we were thinking of going away for a couple of days just to be somewhere different, with my sister and her DH.
The suggestion of this has not got gone down well with granny as she wants dss on Xmas day, but of course so do we.
It would be a one off just to remove me from the norm this year which we have explained.
The plan was to have a get together for all DH family on 27th, almost like another xmas day.
I don't know what to do now