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Do you buy what your child wants even if you think it's crap?

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ThoughtfulPenny · 10/11/2015 22:15

As the title says really.
My four year old wants the elsa snow shooting sleeve for Xmas. It's £30 so won't break the bank and it's the only thing she's repeatedly mentioned. However, it looks crap, the reviews are all crap and I think it's going to be a total waste of money BUT I don't want her to feel that father Xmas didn't bring her the one thing she wanted...
WWYD?

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ExasperatedAlmostAlways · 11/11/2015 14:26

My dd 6 asked for it once so I googled it and I talked her out of it by saying the cans you attach to it runs out really quicky and she said okay then hasn't mentioned it again. If she'd went on and and on I'd of Probably just bought it.

SymphonyofShadows · 11/11/2015 15:04

This thread has brought me back to the horrors of when I was in my early 20's, and had my head up my arse children-wise. We bought my then BF's niece a Barbie, not knowing that she really wanted one but that the parents were horrified and had talked to her about how she might get one when she was older as a diversion. When she opened it she gasped "it's my Barbie" I still recall the horror stricken face of her mother and cringe now, over 25yrs later.

moosemama · 11/11/2015 19:13

I didn't get Mr Frosty or The Wombles Shaker Maker. Sad

All three of mine have been told from when they were young enough to understand that stuff from TV adverts tends to be rubbish and generally they're pretty good at accepting that. The older two were bought cheapish stuff when they were younger that backed this up and dd has been regailed with their stories about those items.

On the odd occasion they've really wanted something I know is utter tat I've sat down and discussed it with them, shown them the terrible online reviews and said we could either choose something similar but better together, they could choose something completely different or they can have it, but have to accept the fact it has enormous potential to be rubbish.

Dd asked for Puppy Surprise this year. £25.00 for a cuddly toy with a horrible plastic face! I looked them up online to see if there was some reason why people so enamoured with them and found that, despite people gushing about how they loved them in the 90's and were so happy they are back etc, they really are just overpriced, soft toys. I found an alternative toy dog that had puppies, then sat down with dd to talk about the merits of both. The clincher was the YouTube review, that started off gushing, then went downhill as the reviewer tried to get the pups eyes to open by putting cold water on them. At that point dd (6) said, "They're rubbish aren't they Mum?" and chose the other option.

She also wanted a Girl's World, which I was fully prepared to buy (fond memories of having one myself and all that) until I read the online reviews, which were dire. Did a bit of research, found two other options that had great reviews, talked it through and she chose the one that was more expensive than Girl's World. Hmm That'll teach me! Grin

Ds2 is a nightmare at Christmas for different reasons. He collects vintage games consoles and games and rare Pokemon cards and always has something non-expensive, but really hard to source on his list. I have never failed yet, but I suspect, from listening to him talking to ds1 last weekend, that this year he may well have me defeated. Hmm

BuildersBum · 11/11/2015 19:16

No, not if the reviews are really crap.

oobedobe · 11/11/2015 19:44

I try not to do this, so you have to start early with engineering their wants! Last year DD1 wanted a robot dog, we got her the fur real friend cookie one, and she loved it, but she really want one that looks like a robot so at the last minute we got her a zoomer zuppy and it was a load of rubbish and DD1 never played with it.

This year she has both the Fur Real unicorn and the zoomer kitty on her list (she knows it is a wish list and you don't get everything), I was against both, but after playing with the unicorn I feel it does have quite a lot of play value and at least is cute, the zoomer kitty's have poor reviews and apparently only last 30 mins after charging.

Also Paw Patrol stuff will not be purchased, she is 7, I am happy for her to watch the cartoon with her little sister, but the toys seem utter rubbish.

Millie2013 · 11/11/2015 19:52

I wanted a Big Yellow Tea Pot, my mum refused to buy it, I still bang on about it, every ChristmasvGrin
She now wishes she'd just bought the bloody thing

Hulababy · 11/11/2015 20:11

ijustwannadance - you can buy those gel ball things on Amazon. They are pretty cheap. Maybe buy her a few packs of them instead.

Aqua balls

KatharineClifton · 11/11/2015 20:12

I did, pretty much. But then I wrote their Santa lists with them, which helped a lot.

ijustwannadance · 11/11/2015 20:44

Thanks Hulababy. Much cheaper too.

BifsWif · 11/11/2015 20:52

I didn't get Mr Frosty either and I'm still bitter about it!

But yes to the tat, if it's something he really wants.

Alanna1 · 11/11/2015 20:55

No I don't. I buy things I think she will love and enjoy. That frozen glove looks ridiculous. I have explained why!

thequickbrownfox · 11/11/2015 20:57

I bought DD a zoomer zuppie last year as she was desperate for one - it's a complete waste of money and doesn't even move! Just flashes lights and plays rotten music. Such a razzle.

This year I'm going to research her presents more thoroughly.

NoSquirrels · 11/11/2015 21:23

I do what other evil parents do and ensure that a) expectations are managed about crap adverts b) I engineer a bit of excitement around things I think they would really love and enjoy but might not think of as top of their lists and finally c) that the DC understand that I will not EVER, NO WAY buy XXX toy (e.g Barbie). But that they are welcome to add whatever they like to their Christmas lists, as long as they include a variety of stuff e.g. toys, clothes, books, random cheap tat and very expensive stuff etc. because no one knows how many DC FC has to buy for and what his budget is!

Then I decide what we'll get, decide what I hate but they want the most for FC to bring, and spread the other ideas around relatives. It is totally the magic of Christmas for me to be all wide-eyed with surprise and fake-outrage on Christmas morning at the Barbie Father Christmas has bought that I would NEVER buy! Those are memories I intend to cherish a long time.

KatharineClifton · 11/11/2015 21:33

NoSquirrels Grin

ObsidianBlackbirdMcNight · 11/11/2015 21:37

Last year my DS wanted that stupid teksta robot dinosaur. It was £65. I said no, because it was too expensive and I told him he would get bored of it very quickly. (I bought him a bike!)
He got some money from relatives and with a bit of leftover birthday money he had enough. So I let him buy it. Obviously it's pretty crap and no he doesn't play with it and I thought I could use it as a teachable moment about the power of advertising etc blah blah. Turns out that doesn't really work on 7 year olds.

BeStrongAndCourageous · 11/11/2015 21:39

I'm another one debating a singalong Elsa! It's the main thing she keeps asking for, but she doesn't play with dolls! She's got several - including two other bloody Elsas! - but never plays with them.

She's very keen on dressing up though - do you think I can get away with getting her the musical Elsa dress instead? That will at least get played with. Her birthday's not long after Christmas so I could always get it then if she hasn't stopped going on about it.

franksidebottom · 11/11/2015 21:52

My memories of not getting a Mr Frosty or big yellow teapot haven't faded, what a damaged generation we areGrin but no, in answer to your op I don't generally buy anything that I think will be crap or has crap reviews unless it's not too expensive. I ask my kids to write a list of ideas and will get some things but not all. Doggy doo has been asked for every year, I have been tempted I admit but again poor reviews stops me

NeverNic · 11/11/2015 22:18

We were ridiculously spoilt with toys and presents as kids, but I am still (ungratefully) disappointed that I didn't get a pair of Princess key shoes, the kitchen a pp mentioned or a Mr Frosty! Yes I was allergic to every 80s colouring under the sun, so I would have just been eating white ice, but still!

My eldest isn't there yet, but I kind of think one shite present, provided they really do want it, it isn't massive and it isn't over £30 is okay.

YourBubzYourRulzHun · 12/11/2015 10:07

frank Doggie Do is indeed rubbish. Mine got it last year or year before and it never worked, not one poo did we get out of it. I threw it away.
I had the Big Yellow Teapot and Lights Alive when I was younger, they were fab.

SymphonyofShadows · 12/11/2015 13:36

Box of Shocks was much longed for last year. DS got it from DGF but it was rubbish

Arfarfanarf · 12/11/2015 13:39

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DuckDuckMongoose · 12/11/2015 13:45

I'm wondering about this too at the moment! My son wants a Xeno (snotty interactive monster!) - I don't think they look that great but he would really like one.

I remember REALLY wanting a cabbage patch doll that you put in the water when you first got it out of the box to see if it was a boy or a girl. I didn't get one Sad

Maybe I'll try and get one from eBay...the Xeno, not the cabbage patch doll!

NellyTimes · 12/11/2015 15:44

shop.spreadshirt.co.uk/totgu/-A104319872

Think a few of us could do with one of these...

G1veMeStrength · 12/11/2015 15:48

We look at reviews to dissuade them from getting crap. Also I bought them a choc coin thing from charity shop to demonstrate crapness in action and now they believe me/reviews.

fuzzpig · 13/11/2015 10:58

No I don't :o we don't have much money though so for me £30 would be far too much to waste.

DCs don't have their heart really set on anything though (apart from lego but that is never crap... in fact I'm getting some lego myself this year :o) so I can see that would make things more difficult.

They've mentioned things like the chocolate lolly maker as they see the adverts and I just say 'I've heard it's rubbish' and they seem ok with it.