Friend can't afford to buy me Xmas gift

[OiledBegg]

My friend text to say that as she's on mat leave this year, she can't afford Xmas presents for friends. Obviously this is completely understandable, and she said in the message that to obviously not buy her anything either.
So, should I still get her a gift or will it make her feel awkward? I feel petty for not getting her something just because she can't afford it even though she's said not to! Or should I get her baby a gift instead?

I would be grateful for one less present to think about and welcome her suggestion. If I was in her shoes and you got me something go I would feel awkward and next year, when she is unlikely to be much better of (an extra mouth to feed, childcare costs etc) she will feel obliged to get you something.

If I knew then what I know now, I wouldn't start buying gifts for the children either. Once there are 10+ children in the group of friends, it becomes hard and expensive to get something for them all.

I would do a non Christmas gift and do a mum to be gift - take her some of her favourite things - a decaf Starbucks latte and cake or whatever floats her boat, so she feels pampered and appreciates the treat but doesn't have to reciprocate.
I think after kids are born, gifts are for the kids anyway, I would rather have a Christmas night out with my girls and have their time, and a chance to let my hair down, than a gift.