I am not getting caught up in that overspending nonsense.I haev for years tried to hint to my family that I don't think xmas is about big expensive presents but it has fallen on deaf ears so this year i am going to be straight with them I love presents and choosing things for different people but I think it has all become excessive tbh and has no meaning at all.I don't need any more stuff and would be more than happy with a book or some chocolates!My mum bought me a v expensive cardigan last year which i took back!It cost about £90 and I would prefer she spent less and was just a bit nicer to everyone.So I am saying give a donation to charity I am not bah humbug by the way I love xmas just can't stand the excess and waste.