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Who can't wait for their first '*bragadosia' aka round robin of Christmas!!!!

44 replies

missymoosal · 14/11/2006 15:52

Every year I await with baited breath for the heavy thud of the first of many Christmas bragadosia's to hit the mat leaving a visible dent.
I settle down on the sofa to immerse myself in the infintesimal details of those who are blessed with such full and interesting lives.
I have my ventolin and a bucket close to hand as both nausea and uncontrollable laughter are usually the order of the day.
How do you enjoy yours?

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Riddo · 14/11/2006 16:56

The same, some make me cry with laughter which always sets of my asthma. We always do a really short letter and bragging is not allowed. The children do their own bit which I like to think will make people smile for the right reason.

amynnixmum · 14/11/2006 16:58

LOL The only one I actually enjoy getting is from my cousin and his wife as it is really funny. The book people are selling 2 books of funny and ridiculous quotes from round robins.

KathyMCMLXXII · 14/11/2006 17:04

Do people post them on MN?
Would be tempting, but a bit dangerous I fear.

bran · 14/11/2006 17:07

I've never had one, I feel a bit cheated. Is it just misfortune that I don't know anyone who does this, or do my friends not think I'm worth the postage?

missymoosal · 14/11/2006 17:14

Have to say all of mine come from the USA.
They are fabulously amusing and I pass them on to my friends to spread the mirth.

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zookeeper · 14/11/2006 17:16

they really make me cringe although they'tre often so awful they're hilarious - i have asked dp to shoot me if i ever do one.

ernest · 14/11/2006 17:41

snap, bran. Am aslo very jealous and disappointed never to have received one. Maybe I can put it my letter to Santa..

SherlockLGJ · 14/11/2006 18:18

I only get one from a very good friend, who is the central point for a group that hung around together when we were in our twenties.

There is a bit himself, his DW and their children, then the rest is a round up of what the rest of us are doing always most welcome.

UnquietDad · 22/11/2006 14:33

we have had one that said:

"We have also almost completely refurbished our house which - given the size - has taken quite a long time."

LittleSarah · 22/11/2006 14:40

Ooh I love these but never get them! My aunt and uncle did one once which was great, all about re-doing their kitchen and so on, dull, dull, dull, but funny.

I love seeing other people's ones.

sandyballs · 22/11/2006 14:42

DH's uncle sent one last year which included:

"DS has finally got himself a girlfriend who is rather attractive and very clever which has cheered us up immensely as we always thought he was gay. God only knows what she sees in him".

ComeOVeneer · 22/11/2006 14:43

My dad does one every year. He spent almost 30 years travelling/living all over the world due to his job and has many any friends dotted all over the place that he contacts a couple of times a year. A lot of them do them and it is a good way of doing a quick catch up (plus a chance to post some pictures of their fabulous grandchildren ).

expatinscotland · 22/11/2006 14:44

I throw those out.

Immediately.

They're so disgusting.

Like your pals aren't even worth writing a personal little note to.

So beyond tacky I feel embarrassed for the sender.

Yes, I am a US expat. THere is NO OTHER PLACE on the planet w/more boastful people. Anywhere.

The concepts of modesty, nuance, suggestion and imagination are just beyond the scope of many of them.

expatinscotland · 22/11/2006 14:46

I did one as a spoof that included a stint in a Peruvian jail for drug possession, contracting an STD and finding my 'soulmate' - through prison mail.

LittleSarah · 22/11/2006 14:59

My friend used to get one which was done from the point of view of the family cat.

Sherbert37 · 22/11/2006 15:04

Please let's post them here. They are such a sign of the times (unfortunately).

RTKangaMummy · 22/11/2006 15:11

But would you prefer to get one if they weren't bragging ?

Please give me some tips on how to do it and make it funny or not bragging or boring

Please help me

We do them and I am going to do one this time we send about 80 cards and I spend far too long on Mumsnet to have the time to write a personal letter in each one.

If I wasn't addicted to MUMSNET I would have more time

acnebride · 22/11/2006 15:19

[po-faced boring post alert] I love getting them, and with no irony whatsoever. I only wish everyone did them. I get quite annoyed with people slagging them tbh, because I assume people will be less likely to write if they think people are laughing at them.

Obviously it would be even more amazing if friends I no longer see very often, or which I'm maybe not that close to, sent me long personal letters, but if that's not possible, I'd much rather know what's going on in their lives in any way at all. My aunt does one that is 4 A4pages long, is she supposed to do a personal letter that long for everyone she knows around the world? No-one is forcing me to read it, but I like to because it's like talking to her, only better. I also hang on to them and read them again when getting out last year's Christmas cards to write this year's. I'm also rubbish at names, address changes and esp children's names, so letters like this help me update my diary and so on.

And I have a really close friend, who tells me so much intimate detail of her life I sometimes get embarrassed, and having her letter is useful because I know what is 'public knowledge' IYSWIM. Also reminds me of stuff about her life I'd forgotten, or not realised was really that important.

Anyway, maybe they're only a help to relationshipally-challenged people like me, but if you want to do one, don't be put off.

acnebride · 22/11/2006 15:24

My aunt's letter also replaces a rather hideous institution that infested the family between 1954 and 1997, where each of my mother's 4 siblings plus my grandmother wrote a short letter, took out the oldest letter in the pack and then sent on the six most recent letters to the next sibling. This used to go round about once a month and I remember my mum always struggling to write her bit. You'd think they would be a fascinating family archive but in fact because they were written so often and were for everyone to read, trips to the garden centre and amusing medical anecdotes were the staple fare, whereas the big stuff like infidelities, feuds, rows and business scandals were kept strictly under wraps.

The Christmas letters are much brisker and less of a burden all round.

RTKangaMummy · 22/11/2006 15:26

Could you explain that again cos I am a bit confused

acnebride · 22/11/2006 15:30

sorry will butt out now

RTKangaMummy · 22/11/2006 15:41

Thanks

Please could someone give me some tips on howto make them funny or NOT bragging

Or I will have to leave MN until after christmas so I have enough time to write individual ones

MrsMcJnr · 22/11/2006 16:26

I always used to do them because I find it quite a good way to reflect on the year as well as tell my pals who are scattered around what we are up too. I used to only send it to those I hadn't seen in the year. A close friend got wind of it and teased me rotten, as a result, I didn't do it last year and got complaints about my few illegible lines in the card instead - needless to say, I'm doing the letter again this year - loving the idea of doing one from the cat's perspective!

expatinscotland · 22/11/2006 16:28

No, I would not prefer to get one if they were not bragging, b/c I find them thoughtless and perfunctory on the whole.

What I would do instead is type up a short letter personlised to each person, if I were not going to handwrite a letter.

I say personalised b/c round robin letters invariably include tidbits and info of which some recipients will be entirely ignorant.

Who wants to know they're just a box to be ticked?

No, they smack of gaucherie.

Twohootsunderthemistletoe · 22/11/2006 16:36

Amynnixmum - could you do a link to the book - think it would be a laugh...

We don't do one (and don't intend to either much to Inlaws dismay!). They get them from DH's cousins in their cards and they are drivel. It's all 'well this child is going to be the firs to fly to mars with wings, this child will be a doctor by age 15, we've raised £3 million squillion for our church this year'..... blah, blah, blah.

Me thinks honestly it is an excuse for them all to boast about how fabulously intelligent and well rounded their kids are (yep there's the helping the third world on gap years too etc) and how they are great citizens helping their local church so much.

PARP, PARP!!!! (Can you tell I just love suffering reading them at Xmas (and having to pretend I'm interested too))!!!!

Arghhhhhh - off to boil my head in preparation! In fact I'll get the bloody book from book people and take it with me and read out suitable excerpts - maybe they'll then get the message (in laws that is in case you can't understand my rant).....