We went well over the top last year and I'm keen to redress the balance whilst DS is small enough not to notice the difference. When I was litle, we always had one "big" prezzie and a bag of assorted always unwrapped little goodies from Santa in our bedrooms, no stockings and if I remember right suspiciously no presents from Mum & Dad but other family presents under the tree. DH had stockings in his bedroom from Santa with only little things (always wrapped) and big presents from family inc parents under tree. So, who gives what in your house?