I just wanted to get some other mums opinions. My DD is just 3. And I've noticed she's starting to succumb to TV advertising and recognises the hideous baby born and baby annabel adverts, which I find a bit disconcerting. Esp as I already imposed a 'no Barbie' ban on our house as soon as she was born. I am not anti-pink, or anti-doll, but I make sure DD has a good selection of toy cars and non-gender specific toys. However we do have a 'fashion' doll in the house and 3 cabbage patch kids. But I just feel that baby born, baby annabel and barbie are more of a brand - and a financial con (have you seen the price of baby annabel outfits?).
DD is more than happy to play with her ELC pram with a teddy in it or one of her other dolls and happily sits them down to eat or pretend to change them, and all her accessories have been gathered from various places, some second hand, without thought to brand etc.
I know when she gets to to school and hears what other little girls have I will probably have to have a rethink. But at the moment I feel if she is happy with the toys she's got why step into the breach and get all this heavy branded stuff.
My friend and Godmother thinks I am depriving her, and has hinted that her DD's have chosen a barbie present for DD for Christmas. Also MIL has asked if she can get some of this stuff. I have said a firm no to both parties, and suggested other less costly but more (I feel) appropriate things -besides it would all be similar to what she has already.
Am I being a meanie mummy?