I'm hosting Xmas Eve for the first time this year. 12 adults and three kids.
I have all the usual kit, slow cooker etc and oven space is not a problem.
Only fussy eaters are the older ones who won't eat anything 'forrin' 
So the idea is
Pulled pork
Lovely bread rolls
Homemade stuffing
Cider gravy
Braised red cabbage (can i do this is the slow cooker?)
Coleslaw
Salad?!?
Potato wedges
Maybe a pan of chilli
Should I do picky party bits too?
What about a pudding? Some sort of cake? Cheesecake?
Also what sort of quantities? I don't want to waste food but want to have enough too.
My sister hosted last year and party food went down a storm but want different.
What about drinks? Is mulled cider easy to do?
Help me I'm crap!!