Crikey. I am tight then!
I would say probably £150 of 3 DCs. They don't want expensive presents yet (they got Hudl tablets last year but used Tesco vouchers and split the cost with my parents). Little, cheap stocking fillers, a few bits and bobs clothes-wise. OK, maybe £200 at the absolute max.
H & I usually buy something for the house - as a combined gift to ourselves. Maybe £50.
Other relatives - 2 sets of parents / 3 siblings & 3 partners / 2 nephews / 2 cousins / 1 godchild. Maybe £100 in total.
Real tree - have got the IKEA tree for the last 2 years, £25 but you get a £20 voucher to spend in January. Have lasted longer than any other trees we've had.
Buy Christmas cards / paper / tags in the January sales. Peanuts.
Bit of extra food but not massively extravagant and don't usually host (or if I do, my Mum brings the turkey and all the trimmings!). We just provide the alcohol - so maybe £100 or so on wine & beer.
So about £450 - £500. Everyone is entitled to "do" Christmas how they want, but £1000 on a child is really extravagant in my view - how do you top that each year? If you have more than one child, is that £1000 per child
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