I have the lovely daydream of Christmas Shopping. It's cold and dry. There's music and lights everywhere. And just the hint of snow......
I'm going from shop to shop, browsing and picking up nice trinkets. Then a cup of hot chocolate in a nice cafe before heading home.
Sounds lovely eh?
The reality bites.
It's not cold. It's meh. Drizzly. If I wear too many layers, I'll cook. Shops are boiling hot, I'm having 'flushes'
I have to guard my handbag.
Get to the car-park so early to get a space then wander round waiting for the shops to open.
Then after 2-3 shops my hands are full. My bags bite into my fingers and bump my legs. I want to look at things but I can't get near. So I go back to the car to put things in the boot (once I did this 4 times)
Wrapping paper gets bent. I think "Oh I should buy this online"
People are complaining about queues.
The DC get narky. DH is resigned in a down trodden way.
I don't fancy McD so spend £12 in Starbucks on 4 drinks.
The only way to do it, is to start in October. Buy things earlier.
I'm not doing without things, I actually spend less because I'm not impulse buying. Things for the DC stockings have to be practical or fun, but less than £5. They don't get 'presents' now, mainly money/vouchers so it's the stocking gifts they have the joy of tearing open.
DH and I go shopping at the end of November. Not too busy (we take a day off work). He carries all the bags, I drive 
We have a Family Day Out, just looking round and spending the £2 jar.
Sainsburys Big Shop (though I always seem to get the dodgy trolley) with my Nectar Points.
So it spaces things out and less stressful (well as less stressful as Christmas with a teenager and a preteen can be) 