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I need some serious present help please.

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CharminglyOdd · 06/11/2012 22:57

DP is a total nightmare to buy for. I am going to list everything but start by saying the biggest problem is money: he doesn't want for anything and if he likes something will buy himself top-of-the-range as a starting point so upgrading loved items doesn't work. My parents have maximum £40 to spend on his Christmas present and they want to get him something 'personal'. All previous presents have been gratefully received (for the sentiment) but not used.

  • He wanted a subscription to National Geographic channel only (as a top-up from Freeview) but realised that wasn't possible. We won't get Sky etc. at the moment.
  • He doesn't read anything other than technical magazines
  • Likes some alcohol, especially beer, but not spirits
  • Loves food but everyone buys him food/chocolate as he is so difficult to buy for I rely heavily on this
  • Doesn't listen to music other than the radio, just listens to work-related podcasts
  • Goes jogging regularly but has everything he needs day-to-day, including the apps to track his running etc. Everything was brand new last Christmas or sooner.
  • He has just bought a house for us... all suggestions are house items, which is nice but ultimately I feel a bit selfish suggesting that to my parents when I will also benefit from them
  • He has far too many clothes (filled two double wardrobes, about twenty pairs of shoes... he doesn't recognise most of his stuff). The only thing he needs - gloves - are already coming from me, as per his request
  • I tried some of the flim-flammery from notonthehighstreet two Christmases ago and it was a total flop.
  • His first language is not English
  • He's very smart and loves technology
  • We live in the North East so London-centric days out not possible
  • He downloads a lot of movies and resents paying for them have given up on this one so people buying him boxsets etc., also doesn't work... I suggested David Attenborough (given the Nat Geog thing) and he said he was looking for something a bit more current and geo-political
  • He has a great sense of humour but can find, for example, HIGNFY quite hard to follow in places due to language/culture
  • He doesn't really care about his car and is not a major sports fan, although he loved the Olympics and will watch sport if it's on the TV
  • He loves skiing (not something we do together) and being outdoors so we go on a lot of (easy) walks
  • I work away from home a lot and he is very busy. The four major things we do together are: relax in front of the TV (work our way through TV series); go out walking; cook elaborate meals; visit friends/go out on relaxed evenings with friends

Those are the main points and I am totally stuck. I really need some help please or he's getting a cheese wire. I am not actually joking about that.

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BiddyPop · 07/11/2012 10:30

How about a selection of Seasonal Christmas and Winter beers, along with some favourite or unusual snacks to go with them (I got DH 30 different beers last year, with things like Bombay mix, beetroot crisps, and wasabi coated broad beans (sounds strange but he really loved those!!) and the whole thing went down VERY well indeed!).

MorallyBankrupt · 07/11/2012 10:53

What is his first language? Mabe we could find somethings he'd like in it?

hophophippidtyhop · 07/11/2012 12:53

look up beer club/delivery. Is it bitter or lager/bottles? Some places offer a monthly delivery, or you could order speciality ones. If it's bitter and he likes a particular brewer, you can order cases (or small kegs!) direct from them usually.

CharminglyOdd · 07/11/2012 14:28

Thank you all :) The list of ideas now looks like this:

Barometer
Carcassonne expansion packs (had totally forgotten that he loves this board game)
Wired magazine
Empire magazine (1 issue only to see if he likes it, he really does hate reading)
Snow pass for Sunderland snowdome thing
Spa vouchers
Local Christmas beer (he does love the local brewery)
Cheese wire (!)
Cheese board
Cheese (he hadn't heard of Stinking Bishop so I was going to get some anyway for Christmas)
Graze vouchers/nibbles
This Alessi grater he is desperate for.

Thank you for the books link Oreo and others who came up with walking ideas. I will investigate and see if I can turn them into some kind of itinerary for weekends away - it's his birthday in January and that will be a great option then as I've already spent too much on him to make that feasible within my Christmas budget.

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EldritchCleavage · 07/11/2012 14:45

For cheese wire, board, etc try www.davidmellordesign.com, who have some very nice ones.

CharminglyOdd · 07/11/2012 14:49

Thanks Eldritch, have had a look and I love the items on that site - never seen it before!

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