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Argh! Last-minute food dithering, please help!

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CharminglyOdd · 20/12/2011 17:53

Spending Christmas with DM, DF and DSis in a cottage in a reasonably remote area. Decided weeks ago to do the shopping on the 23rd as a) will tie in with picking DSis up from airport and b) saves us taking all the food 600-odd miles. That means, I think, we need something that involves bog-standard ingredients as most places may sell out of things.

The problem is DF. DM is nut-free and DSis is gluten free but DF will only eat carrots, potatoes, meat and 'hard' goats cheese/other non-dairy products. He won't eat fish. He will throw an almighty Christmas-wrecking strop (not without reason) if he is 'excluded' by having a different meal on a family day/religious holiday. DM doesn't want to spend the whole day in the kitchen so wants something simple and has asked me for recipes. Whilst she would be happy if I/DSis cooked (and am more than happy to do so) she wants to be the main contributor.

So. All we can think of at the minute is roast beef with trimmings (keeps DF happy) but it requires a lot of time and really one chef because of timings/co-ordination. I suggested toad-in-the-hole with a separate GF one for DSis and that is a tentative second option.

Ideally I'd like to do a table of little festive dishes so DSis and I can do more (but there are only four of us and she wants to avoid waste). Pigs in blankets, some kind of stuffing balls, roast potatoes (DF will insist), and then what else? Maybe some small fish thing for us three? If it was up to us three it would be fine but DF has some very set ideas/preferences and we're not up for family rows over one meal.

Does anyone have any bright ideas please? I am absolutely stumped and would greatly appreciate any help. We are in the cottage until the 28th so can eat leftovers and will have to buy food for then anyway. Would like to be as festive as possible. Thanks for any help you can give :)

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PomBearAtTheGatesOfDoom · 20/12/2011 17:58

Take a slow cooker and do the beef in it in red wine?
Or get the beef, cook it on Thursday and take it with you?
Just buy a packet of deli sliced roast beef?
Cook the beef and just do roast or jacket spuds with it? and then just break out "snacks" whatever you all like best a couple of hours later as the "bracing country air" has made you all hungry in the best tradition of Enid Blyton?
If DF will kick off, how could you three have "a little fish thing" without him doing so? He can't have it all ways Confused

Gapants · 20/12/2011 17:58

Sorry don't get it [confusded]

DM wants to cook, but there are some special dietary requirements? Your DF will throw a strop if he has a special meal? How old is he?!

PomBearAtTheGatesOfDoom · 20/12/2011 18:00

Or in the true spirit of a naice family Xmas "fuck off Father" is a complete sentence, and if you say it with a lovely warm smile on your face it will take him all day to work out just what you said Xmas Wink no I don't mean it, I don't think anyway, it's just so many people seem so stressed by other people's arsery Xmas Confused

CharminglyOdd · 20/12/2011 18:04

I know that describing DF's food habits is a bit Hmm - he just likes to feel like a special snowflake without feeling 'excluded'... nearly impossible to avoid. I went through a phase (when living at home) of cooking DM & I nice food and him something totally bland, according to his precise food requirements. He sulked massively, but I think got the point for a few months - unfortunately that was a year ago Grin

If the things he can't eat are side dishes, rather than a main option, then he won't kick up a fuss, that's what I mean about the fish :)

Thanks Pom for the pre-cooking idea, I didn't even think of it

If DM can cook the beef the day before then I can handle a veg side (DF = no), make mini tidgy (sp?) puds, etc. Jacket potatoes is also a good idea, much less faff and he likes those too.

Thank you!

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PomBearAtTheGatesOfDoom · 20/12/2011 18:33

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