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breezeyday · 06/10/2025 09:57

my young adult daughter has expressed a desire to go to Church for the last few months and we went together yesterday.

It was the first time for me in many years.
Shes been reading the Bible and really wanted to go to Church. She’s also been asking about baptism.

I advised her that she should probably attended church for a period before she’s absolutely certain she wants to make that commitment.

Ive always been a believer but for some strange reason always felt faith was personal and didn’t want to do it in public. Saying that, yesterday was such a lovely calm experience, surrounded by people of faith who welcomed us so warmly. It felt good.
The other people in our household are agnostic/atheist, but supportive of us going to church.
Ive just ordered a copy of the New Testament, the first one I’ve ever owned. We had a family Bible with wafer thin pages and tiny print when I was growing up. This is the first one I’ve owned.

I feel a little like a fraud at the moment in church, as many of the congregation know the Bible very well.
I know it’s unrealistic that I can know it all straightaway.
I’m privately very happy she found her own way to God. She’s had mental health issues for years and years and at her worst was really struggling. She’s much better these days, but I really hope this newfound faith will help her.
I didn’t realise there was a Christian forum, glad I found you all!

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FuzzyPuffling · 06/10/2025 10:30

What a lovely story breezeyday. I'm glad you've got a Bible, but i wouldn't for one moment think everyone else at church knows it all. I know I don't, by a looooong chalk!
Just take it all at your pace and enjoy!

God bless you and your daughter.

Justmerach · 06/10/2025 10:46

Hi and welcome
Church going has been resurging in young people aged 18-24 year olds. There is a post on this about resurgence in church going and the discussion was among young people to in there. It seems that many young people are wanting more from life and seeking out a relationship with God. Given the last few years it doesn't surprise me.
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/christian-mumsnetters/5318208-a-quiet-revival

God has really really helped me and his Holy Spirit in my life with my own conditions and made it bearable for me. This was given to me through his gifts and Holy Spirit which many ways to help in our journey and cope in life. It can even help me when I am overwhelmed and can comfort its prescene. It can help with protection, wisdom, faith and knowledge to.

Don't worry about learning the Bibe -we all have our own journey and you start at any time. I learnt much of the New Testatment gospels in a matter of days for my GCSE exams lol. It can be a bit of a child's play and anyone can do it. There is no competition with anyone. I would also say there is free audio Bible's such as Faith comes by hearing- that come in dramatised and non dramatised versions. I have downloaded these and find it an helpful aid.

Remember, all church's that follow the Bible are all part of Jesus' body- if you stop here where you are it is fine, but if you need to move on-that is fine as well.

Good luck

ChristmasStars · 06/10/2025 11:48

What a lovely thread @breezeyday

Please don't feel like a fraud. We are all on a journey of discovering God and it's exciting.

I wonder if the church you went to do alpha courses? That's a really good place to begin. It gives opportunity in a small group to explore what the Bible says plus you get to know a few people in the church better.

Geneticsbunny · 06/10/2025 13:22

I agree with what others have said and if you ever have any questions please come and ask. Anything you like and you should get a good balanced Christian view from the guys on here. It's a pretty diverse group in terms of Christians from different denominations.

Troubledwords · 06/10/2025 16:21

Remember you don't have to stick to the first church you go to. Feel free to try out a few, and talk about what you like or dislike about ones. You may find that one church fits you and what you believe better than another.

Thegreatestoftheseislove · 06/10/2025 16:51

@breezeyday

We all started somewhere. Welcome to the start of your own faith journey. 😊

GentleSheep · 06/10/2025 20:48

That's great to hear and I hope you and your daughter will enjoy your new Bible and Church. You can support each other learning! Check whether the Church has Bible study classes. It's so exciting to start out on your faith journey.

breezeyday · 07/10/2025 13:41

thank you everybody. It’s an exciting new journey, one I’ve always been curious but unsure of, until now.
Im not sure where this new certainty comes from, but it feels good and it feels right.

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QuickPeachPoet · 07/10/2025 23:12

This is fabulous - welcome to you both.
There is absolutely no rush to do anything. Just enjoy the process.
Perhaps there is a house group or Bible study group you can go to as well as the services to learn a bit more, discuss etc. Remember nobody there, not even priests, know everything.

EducatingArti · 07/10/2025 23:49

I don't think you need to worry about being a fraud. The further I go on my Christian journey the more I think I don't really understand it. None of us can claim to have "achieved" faith. It is always a gift and a journey.

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