Hi there, know this post goes back a long long time now but want to reiterate all the previous messages about how much this has helped me feel less alone.
We have struggled with out boy's wind since he was 2 weeks old (now 16months) all the usual diagnosis were thrown at us in the first year (dairy intolerance/reflux etc) but nothing seemed to be helping.
Exactly the same symptoms as many of you, when he was little it would effect him in the day but now almost solely at night. How often we're told 'oh but he seems fine' when you have to sit up with him in pain night after night.
We finally got to see a paediatrician just before he turned 1 and his immediate thought was fructose/fructan intolerance, it was the first explanation that made sense and we have started to see an improvement since trialing how to manage it.
For us this includes:
Most fruit reserved for morning/lunchtime
Cutting out certain foods (wheat, peas, onions and garlic especially bad for us)
Massage at hip points before bed
Warm water or watered down milk to help him pass wind at night
With this in place we're down to 1 or 2 wakes a night which is more manageable than it used to be.
I've seen some other useful posts on mumsnet directly related to fructose/fructan intolerance - had never heard about it before our gastro paediatrician appointment though.
Have been told he should grow out of it but the stress of his broken sleep and limited diet have made me second guess myself constantly. (we're still off dairy for now and haven't even dared tried pulses!)
Thanks to this post we're going to try talking to a local homeopath and kinesiologist (if they don't cost the earth!) and see how that goes- fingers crossed.
Good luck to everyone going through this xx