Hello, LittleRobin,
Thank you saggar for bringing me here .
Congratulations on the birth of your little girl Robin - how old is she now? Bouncing, at least, I would guess, as you have had time to be referred to GOSH.
DS was born with 'fibula hemmimelia' - or more recently called 'fibula deficiency'. He has no fibula in his left leg, which was shorter than the other - a discrepancy which increased as he grew. In addition his foot was in the talipes (club foot) position at birth. These things just happen: our consultant said that as the cells are undergoing millions and millions of divisions in the early growth stages, things just go a bot wrong.
For the first year the consultants ummed and aaahed, and monitored the situation. I was under the impression that lengthening could succesfully be attempted if the discrepancy was below a certain percentage. DS's leg was 'borderline' between a clear 'lengthen' or 'don't lengthen' percentage. But there are other factors: is the rest of the foot and leg strong enough for ongoing surgery and a good outcome for mobility? And doubtless other things that consultants have to weigh up.
Is the shortening in your baby's leg in the femur, or tibia? (i.e thigh or shin) - sorry, not sure how far you have begun to talk doctor talk!!! You start to learn a lot of latin and greek in these medical specialisms!
There have been cases where people have achived large amounts of lengthening bu doing the femur and tibia, and in two or three separate procedures during the child's growing years. What is the reaosn they have told you that lengthening is not suitable?
Whatever you do, I would certainly advise a second specialist opinion - ie. GOSH and another specialist, not Guildford. OUr consultant actualy aranged fr us to get a second opinion at GOSH - and it was the who swung us towards lengthening, because our own consultnt was more cautious, and although careful not to tell us what to think, she was veering towards a prosthetic as a solution.
Her caution was well founded, I think. I see you have read my blog (thank you ), and lengthening IS hard, and a lot for a child to go through. Balanced against that is that a prosthetic limb has excellent mobility potential these days - and the procedure is quick, enabling a child to start to learn to walk early using a prosthetic.
There is a doctor in America (Baltimore, I think) called Dr Paley who is famous for big lengthenings - I used to read an American site called LimbDifferences.org where lots of American parents had children being treated by him.
Whatever happens, please do not worry too much. Your dd will be a happy, active little girl. There are other MN-ers can tell you how my DS is a happy, confident little boy, who was brilliant at climbing in the park, in his splints and shoe raise. In clinic we see girls whoare lengtheing, or have prostheses, and they too are getting on with their lives.
If you subscribe to the CAT facility on MN, send me a message and I will tell you which hospital we go to.