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17 year old son, GP or A&E?

392 replies

Imamumgetmeoutofhere · 30/06/2026 12:42

My son is 17, almost 18. For the last 3 days he’s been peeing a lot more than normal and drinking a lot more than normal. This morning I found him asleep on the sofa and he said he had been too tired to go up the stairs to bed, but feels ok in himself today, just wiped out.

I said take him to A&E as these sound like possible diabetes symptoms, husband think it sounds like a UTI and has done an e-consult and urine sample for him at our surgery.

Am I over panicking? Or should I be trusting my judgement and taking him to A&E?

Thanks in advance

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OrlandointheWilderness · 30/06/2026 13:57

Goldengirl123 · 30/06/2026 13:54

A & E is not the place to go. The GP can deal with this and send him to hospital if necessary. If you get referred from the GP then you won’t have to be in the waiting room for hrs. This is why the wait in A & E is so long. They are not walk in centres

With those symptoms and his age it is absolutely the place to go - undiagnosed and untreated diabetes can very quickly cause DKA which is incredibly serious and without treatment is pretty fatal.

Larrythecatforpm · 30/06/2026 13:59

Goldengirl123 · 30/06/2026 13:54

A & E is not the place to go. The GP can deal with this and send him to hospital if necessary. If you get referred from the GP then you won’t have to be in the waiting room for hrs. This is why the wait in A & E is so long. They are not walk in centres

If I had done this with my son, he would of died couldn’t get him into the GP.
Stop being stupid and giving dumb advice.
If they suspect type one they do a glucometer test my sons was done within minutes of arriving.

MrGHost · 30/06/2026 14:00

Goldengirl123 · 30/06/2026 13:54

A & E is not the place to go. The GP can deal with this and send him to hospital if necessary. If you get referred from the GP then you won’t have to be in the waiting room for hrs. This is why the wait in A & E is so long. They are not walk in centres

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/type-1-diabetes/symptoms/

A&E is exactly the right place if type 1 diabetes is suspected.

nhs.uk

Symptoms of type 1 diabetes and how it's diagnosed

Find out about the symptoms of type 1 diabetes, when to get medical help and what tests you might need.

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/type-1-diabetes/symptoms

willitevergetwarm · 30/06/2026 14:03

Diabetes kills and these symptoms need checking.

If my DH hadn't asked for a finger prick test when he took our DD to Dr's for something else, she would have been in a coma within 24 hours.

We spent 3 days in hospital while they stabilised her sugars.

Hope your son is ok OP

DistantEarlyWarning · 30/06/2026 14:11

BillieWiper · 30/06/2026 13:38

Yeah it's the GP you want. I don't think the possible diagnosis of diabetes is classed as an emergency unless someone's going into hypo/hyper.

If it's a UTI it would usually sting and he'd feel constant need to go but barely anything comes out. And pee would usually be dark, cloudy and have foul odour.

Diabetic pee can smell 'sweet' but not like UTI pee.

People who have T1 diabetes but are not treated with insulin cannot possibly be hypoglycaemic.

Undiagnosed diabetes = hyperglycaemia = danger of catastrophic organ damage and death.

PattyBladelll · 30/06/2026 14:13

This is exactly why these kinds of threads should be banned. So much dangerous misinformation and people adamant they know the answer when they're completely wrong

Shufflebumnessie · 30/06/2026 14:13

Trust your gut instinct as a mother (if I'd ignored mine and followed the GPs advice, our DS wouldn't be here).
I hope your son is seen soon, and you have the answers you need Flowers

Beamsss · 30/06/2026 14:14

PattyBladelll · 30/06/2026 14:13

This is exactly why these kinds of threads should be banned. So much dangerous misinformation and people adamant they know the answer when they're completely wrong

Yes, but I now know to treat something as urgent that I wouldn't have previously.

MyrtleLion · 30/06/2026 14:18

Goldengirl123 · 30/06/2026 13:54

A & E is not the place to go. The GP can deal with this and send him to hospital if necessary. If you get referred from the GP then you won’t have to be in the waiting room for hrs. This is why the wait in A & E is so long. They are not walk in centres

I was referred by my GP to A&E with a severe wound infection, and told I would need to stay at least a week. I was in A&E on a chair for 17 hours as they couldn’t find a bed. So this is not strictly true. In the end I was in hospital for 18 days.

If you present at A&E with symptoms of DKA you will be seen immediately, whether or not you are referred by a GP.

catslovehairties · 30/06/2026 14:25

takingitdown · 30/06/2026 13:47

Peeing a lot and being tired isn’t an emergency. He’s probably hungover!

Congratulations, you’ve won an award for the most ridiculous comment of the day 🥇

Choconuttolata · 30/06/2026 14:26

I would take him to A&E, often teens mask their T1 diabetes symptoms a lot longer than younger kids and end up sicker in Diabetic Ketoacidosis which is very serious.

catslovehairties · 30/06/2026 14:27

Goldengirl123 · 30/06/2026 13:54

A & E is not the place to go. The GP can deal with this and send him to hospital if necessary. If you get referred from the GP then you won’t have to be in the waiting room for hrs. This is why the wait in A & E is so long. They are not walk in centres

Please don’t comment on subjects that you clearly know nothing about. Your advice could kill someone.

Musicaltheatremum · 30/06/2026 14:29

takingitdown · 30/06/2026 13:47

Peeing a lot and being tired isn’t an emergency. He’s probably hungover!

As I said, I would dig into the history a bit more to help with diagnosis as a few lines on the internet are not enough to judge but if we take this story of increasing frequency of urination followed by increasing drinking then lethargy these are symptoms that need urgent assessment. If you have a responsive GP practice like the one I ran this would be triaged by a GP and seen straight away to assess with a blood sugar and referral up to hospital. I do hope you are not in the medical profession giving this information because it's downright dangerous.

Musicaltheatremum · 30/06/2026 14:30

catslovehairties · 30/06/2026 14:25

Congratulations, you’ve won an award for the most ridiculous comment of the day 🥇

Not just ridiculous.... dangerous

catslovehairties · 30/06/2026 14:32

Musicaltheatremum · 30/06/2026 14:30

Not just ridiculous.... dangerous

Yep, I toned my language down slightly!

youalright · 30/06/2026 14:38

Could be the heat, could be an infection, could be a multitude of things but i wouldn't risk it when type 1 diabetes is a possibility as that can become very dangerous very quick. A lot of times a&e is to rule out something life threatening and hopefully it turns out to be minor I would imagine this is what happens to 80% of people who go to a&e but it certainly doesn't mean don't go that would be like telling someone with chest pain not to go even though the majority of the time its nothing.

LoafofSellotape · 30/06/2026 14:41

Hope all is ok OP.

ThreadGuardDog · 30/06/2026 14:42

Divebar2021 · 30/06/2026 12:45

If it was diabetes why would a GP not be able to deal with it ?

Because it could be life threatening and you’ll wait longer for test results via a GP. A&E will treat it as a priority. Because it is.

Burningbud1981 · 30/06/2026 14:44

PattyBladelll · 30/06/2026 14:13

This is exactly why these kinds of threads should be banned. So much dangerous misinformation and people adamant they know the answer when they're completely wrong

I agree. The op should be told to call NHS 111 or the equivalent in their country

Urgentnc · 30/06/2026 14:46

Poss Type1 diabetes. Hope your son is checked out ASAP.

HumberSquid · 30/06/2026 14:47

Goldengirl123 · 30/06/2026 13:54

A & E is not the place to go. The GP can deal with this and send him to hospital if necessary. If you get referred from the GP then you won’t have to be in the waiting room for hrs. This is why the wait in A & E is so long. They are not walk in centres

Based on our experience, he will not wait long in any pediatric a&e if presenting with these symptoms. We were seen by triage within 5 min, blood tested within 10. They are generally very alert to the possibility of teenagers in dka.

narnia2025 · 30/06/2026 14:48

These threads are so dangerous.

yes this is a medical emergency
yes a&e is where you should go
thank god your sensible op

atleast one positive from this is that some uneducated people on this thread now know this information.

people should not comment on things they have zero knowledge on.

ThreadGuardDog · 30/06/2026 14:48

Beamsss · 30/06/2026 12:52

I would have definitey said GP. Interesting to see so many people think this is an urgent A&E thing.

It’s definitely urgent because it’s highly indicative of diabetes, and if it is, it could very well be life threatening if it isn’t picked up and treated ASAP. It’s pointless and dangerous to wait around for a GP appointment if A&E will treat it with the priority it deserves - which they absolutely will.

Monty36 · 30/06/2026 14:48

I would suggest unless he is showing clear signs of confusion then GP.

HumberSquid · 30/06/2026 14:48

Burningbud1981 · 30/06/2026 14:44

I agree. The op should be told to call NHS 111 or the equivalent in their country

I disagree. 111 can involve hours of waiting and her ds needs to be seen urgently just in case it is diabetes.

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