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Broken arm - can’t get seen by NHS - help please

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BrokenarmbrokenNHS · 24/03/2026 12:30

I don’t know how to get my dd help - please could anyone advise?

My dd has an accident at school last week (Thursday). I took her for an xray at minor injuries and they said they didn’t think it was broken. A day later we had a phone call to say it was indeed broken and dd is in a lot of pain. I think it’s the radius bone as it goes into the elbow. They said they would refer to the fracture clinic and we had a choice of 2 hospitals as we are between hospitals. So I chose the more convenient one. This was on Friday on the phone.

My DD’s elbow has now been broken for 5 days. We have been referred to the wrong hospital, but I thought I will not worry about that, I will just go to it even though it’s an hour from her school. But they will not give me an appointment. I was supposed to wait to hear from them, they haven’t called. I’ve called them directly and they say she’s on some bloody list.

meanwhile my y13 dd has a broken elbow with nothing other than a sling and is shitting herself about buggering her A levels up this summer due to not being able to write and being in loads of pain.

What am I supposed to do? Why can’t we get help? This is crazy to leave a fracture for 5 days with nobody giving a shit. I foolishly thought the NHS still dealt with emergencies. I have no idea what to do. Please help.

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gingercat02 · 24/03/2026 15:36

Go to A&E today, stop prevaricating on MN. Put a PALS in about the referral.
You have no idea the damage that maybe caused if it heals badly.

TheFairyCaravan · 24/03/2026 15:36

BrokenarmbrokenNHS · 24/03/2026 15:28

They just can’t be arsed seeing her

Have you ever been to a fracture clinic? They’re hell on earth because they work at capacity and then some.

When we took DS2, who’d dislocated his shoulder and broken it in 3 places, it was standing room only and we got seen at 7pm for our 3.45pm appointment. If someone had reviewed his x-ray and decided he didn’t need to come in, I’d have been relieved tbh.

fashionqueen0123 · 24/03/2026 15:37

BrokenarmbrokenNHS · 24/03/2026 15:35

Of course I asked them for information. I got told today it was a radial head fracture and that she did not need a cast. So because I had no idea what kind of fracture it was, because it was missed when minor injuries looked at the xray, I didn’t know what to even google.

My daughter had this. She was advised to wear in a fabric sling for 2 weeks. Ice if needed. Take pain meds for a couple of days. Hers was rechecked after a few days and it was a lot better.
They said to do exercises 4 times a day after taking the pail killers and take sling off, sling off for sleeping too. After a week she was back to normal tbh. No sports except swimming for 6 weeks. If you google radial head feature elbow exercises then nhs pages come up. They gave us some leaflets. It basically helps keep it mobile.

BrokenarmbrokenNHS · 24/03/2026 15:37

ByBreezyUser · 24/03/2026 15:34

It's only when you break a bone and go to a fracture clinic that you see how many other people around you have done the same. If she's in really severe pain go back to minor injuries or A and E. They can write a prescription for pain relief.

Ibuprofen and paracetamol didn't touch the sides of my fracture pain wise. . The only thing that did was codeine when in hospital and dihydrocodeine (not sure if that's the correct spelling) when I came out

I totally get people break bones all the time. The NHS doesn’t seem to get that though. Otherwise they would actually employ people to help deal with the broken bones. I have a bottle of morphine and also codeine pills anyway which belonged to my mum. I just wanted her fracture looked at and to receive proper advice.

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BrokenarmbrokenNHS · 24/03/2026 15:39

TheFairyCaravan · 24/03/2026 15:36

Have you ever been to a fracture clinic? They’re hell on earth because they work at capacity and then some.

When we took DS2, who’d dislocated his shoulder and broken it in 3 places, it was standing room only and we got seen at 7pm for our 3.45pm appointment. If someone had reviewed his x-ray and decided he didn’t need to come in, I’d have been relieved tbh.

Seems like 3rd world. Can’t understand why we don’t actually have proper facilities

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Blindingbatshittery · 24/03/2026 15:41

Ah sorry you’ve had a rubbish experience op. What I really object to is civil servants & directors being paid mega high end six figure salaries to run these trusts and hospitals whilst doing such a rubbish job.

SirChenjins · 24/03/2026 15:43

With all due respect, why didn't you just go to A&E instead of posting on MN? None of us can help her.

ByBreezyUser · 24/03/2026 15:43

BrokenarmbrokenNHS · 24/03/2026 15:37

I totally get people break bones all the time. The NHS doesn’t seem to get that though. Otherwise they would actually employ people to help deal with the broken bones. I have a bottle of morphine and also codeine pills anyway which belonged to my mum. I just wanted her fracture looked at and to receive proper advice.

If you do want the fracture looked at again you are going to have to go back to minor injuries or A and E. Waiting over a week for an appointment at the fracture clinic isn't unusual

Blindingbatshittery · 24/03/2026 15:44

My dd injured herself in France not long ago - I can’t even begin to describe the difference in treatment and efficiency compared to when she broke a bone in the uk…

BeautifulSongsofLove · 24/03/2026 15:46

BrokenarmbrokenNHS · 24/03/2026 15:30

Thank you
It’s gutting to be 5 days into the injury and not to have been advised of this.

Not all fractures require the patient to be reviewed/seen in person in fracture clinic

All x-rays are reported by a radiologist (typically within 48 hours) and reports are compared against the management whether the patient was seen in minor injuries or an emergency department, regardless if seen by an advanced practitioner or a doctor. You would have already been contacted by the minor injuries If the practitioner had incorrectly interpreted the x-ray and different management was needed.

Give your daughter regular over the painkillers and follow the ice pack advice until the clinic call with an appointment date/time or discharge advice

FurForksSake · 24/03/2026 15:47

They do employ people to deal with broken bones, part of that is reviewing and streaming patients. She did not need to be seen, so she isn’t being. She has been given a sling and it’s been reviewed. Being seen in person today would not change the management.

She is lucky she has a very minor injury that though painful and a little restrictive does not need to be seen and will heal in a reasonable length of time with no complexities.

The X-rays were reviewed in clinic and they will have looked for dislocations, obvious fractures and displacements. Often the screens aren’t as good as the ones used by reporting radiographers and radiologists. A small radial head fracture may only have been visible on review as they had the time and equipment needed to review it properly. This is why images are reported on, a certain number of fractures will not be visible or noticed at clinic, but are seen and managed through reporting mechanisms.

Don’t give your daughter strong medication for which she has not been prescribed. If she is in pain call your gp and get her seen and prescribed appropriate treatment.

Communication could have been better, you can certainly complain about that if you feel you’ve been mislead or miscommunicated with.

Figcherry · 24/03/2026 15:49

Blindingbatshittery · 24/03/2026 15:41

Ah sorry you’ve had a rubbish experience op. What I really object to is civil servants & directors being paid mega high end six figure salaries to run these trusts and hospitals whilst doing such a rubbish job.

The NHS has been underfunded for years.
France has a similar population and has 5.8 beds for every 2.5 in the UK and 26% more staff.

SilenceInside · 24/03/2026 15:50

It's nothing at all like "the third world", @BrokenarmbrokenNHS not sure why you think it's at all comparable to a developing country's lack of health care. You were seen, an x-ray was taken, it was reviewed by the fracture clinic who have phoned you to give you the diagnosis and the follow up appointment information. Clearly there was some initial confusion and the referral was handled badly, that's an error, but it doesn't mean the system is broken or not fit for purpose.

What do you think your experience of health care would actually be like in a low-income developing country?

Wickedlittledancer · 24/03/2026 15:51

So they’ve confirmed the type of break and said it doesnr need a cast? Radial break of the elbow is very common and generally just needs a sling for a few days then moving it.

if you’re worried call gp or go to a and e. But seems fine?

WallaceinAnderland · 24/03/2026 15:52

Seems like 3rd world. Can’t understand why we don’t actually have proper facilities

We do. You are just refusing to use them. Go to A&E.

Wickedlittledancer · 24/03/2026 15:52

BrokenarmbrokenNHS · 24/03/2026 15:37

I totally get people break bones all the time. The NHS doesn’t seem to get that though. Otherwise they would actually employ people to help deal with the broken bones. I have a bottle of morphine and also codeine pills anyway which belonged to my mum. I just wanted her fracture looked at and to receive proper advice.

But it was looked at, and a x ray taken, she just needs a sling for a few days, will take up to 12 weeks to heal. You can call your gp or go to a and e if you’re still confused. Didn’t they tell you on the phone what to do with it?

Nursemumma92 · 24/03/2026 15:54

BrokenarmbrokenNHS · 24/03/2026 15:37

I totally get people break bones all the time. The NHS doesn’t seem to get that though. Otherwise they would actually employ people to help deal with the broken bones. I have a bottle of morphine and also codeine pills anyway which belonged to my mum. I just wanted her fracture looked at and to receive proper advice.

I don't know how old your daughter is but do not give her morphine or codeine without medical advice on dosage!

The communication you have encountered has been poor but this injury does not need to be seen in person immediately. As usual in the NHS, the demand outstrips the supply of staff and resources so they prioritise the patients who's injuries do need in person treatment and more urgent or frequent monitoring. Fracture clinics are extremely busy places and certainly in my trust, the staff are run off their feet.

I feel that you should have had better communication once the fracture was identified in terms of what management to continue with and what timescale to expect an appointment.

If you feel your daughter is not managing with the pain then contact your GP or 111 for advice on what pain relief she could be prescribed.

BrokenarmbrokenNHS · 24/03/2026 15:56

Wickedlittledancer · 24/03/2026 15:52

But it was looked at, and a x ray taken, she just needs a sling for a few days, will take up to 12 weeks to heal. You can call your gp or go to a and e if you’re still confused. Didn’t they tell you on the phone what to do with it?

No, when they phoned me last week, they said it was broken. No indication of what type of break and no info for managing it. I only found out since posting this thread, after hassling the fracture clinic again, what kind of fracture it is and how to manage it. Nobody was goign to tell me. And some of the things we should have done, like icing it, have not been done. Because we didn’t know and had insufficient information to google with. I am not confused. I have been given scrimpy information and stonewalled.

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Nevertriedcaviar · 24/03/2026 15:56

jackstini · 24/03/2026 13:00

FGS go to A&E!

Your dd needs seeing asap to get the right treatment and pain meds

I cannot believe you are posting on here instead!

This 100% . Your daughter needs urgent treatment. Even if you have to wait for a while, she will be seen and treated.

BrokenarmbrokenNHS · 24/03/2026 15:56

Nursemumma92 · 24/03/2026 15:54

I don't know how old your daughter is but do not give her morphine or codeine without medical advice on dosage!

The communication you have encountered has been poor but this injury does not need to be seen in person immediately. As usual in the NHS, the demand outstrips the supply of staff and resources so they prioritise the patients who's injuries do need in person treatment and more urgent or frequent monitoring. Fracture clinics are extremely busy places and certainly in my trust, the staff are run off their feet.

I feel that you should have had better communication once the fracture was identified in terms of what management to continue with and what timescale to expect an appointment.

If you feel your daughter is not managing with the pain then contact your GP or 111 for advice on what pain relief she could be prescribed.

She’s 18.

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BrokenarmbrokenNHS · 24/03/2026 15:59

Wickedlittledancer · 24/03/2026 15:52

But it was looked at, and a x ray taken, she just needs a sling for a few days, will take up to 12 weeks to heal. You can call your gp or go to a and e if you’re still confused. Didn’t they tell you on the phone what to do with it?

Why do people think I’m confused?
i was given no information other than “broken” and “fracture clinic will call” - which they did not until I hassled several times and finally got to speak to someone 5 days after the break.

the only thing I’m confused about is why we don’t have proper medical facilities

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MagicMarkers · 24/03/2026 15:59

BrokenarmbrokenNHS · 24/03/2026 12:47

It depends on the break - lots of people do get casts for broken elbows. Even if she doesn’t get a cast, I need her seen by a doctor. We don’t know whether we’re supposed to be mobilising it or icing it or what. We just can’t get any help and elbows seize up really quickly.

I had surgery and a plate put in for a badly broken elbow. It was done the day after the break (but it happened in 1999 when things weren't so bad).

ByBreezyUser · 24/03/2026 16:01

BrokenarmbrokenNHS · 24/03/2026 15:59

Why do people think I’m confused?
i was given no information other than “broken” and “fracture clinic will call” - which they did not until I hassled several times and finally got to speak to someone 5 days after the break.

the only thing I’m confused about is why we don’t have proper medical facilities

You don't think the UK has proper medical facilities?

RosesAndHellebores · 24/03/2026 16:02

ByBreezyUser · 24/03/2026 16:01

You don't think the UK has proper medical facilities?

TBF my local A&E doesn't provide proper A&E facilities.

ByBreezyUser · 24/03/2026 16:05

Op - you were told that she had broken her elbow and to wait for a referral to the fracture clinic. You have to wait for a letter - that's pretty standard. If she's still in a lot of pain to the point it is intolerable go back to A and E or minor injuries and ask for some pain relief or if there's anything else they can do - there's not much more than that you can do at this point