Ahh poor thing! Do try & call ERIC - I found them invaluable. Impacted poo tends to be smelly, gritty, hard to wipe, sometimes overflow diarrhoea, can be going multiple times a day.. soiling “leaking” poo. If you were to disimpact & it wasn’t needed you would just teach the end result faster & wouldn’t do any harm. It’s messy though & you won’t believe the amount of poo a tiny body can hold! Only way to see true impaction is xray but drs are reluctant due to radiation x