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Shaken baby syndrome

6 replies

Butterfly155 · 31/05/2025 22:01

Couple of nights ago my 5 months old was waking up every 2 hours and towards the morning I started rocking him from side to side with his head and neck well fixed in my arms in a wide angle and quickly. I have stopped myself after a few minutes but I am now worried whether i could have caused shaken baby syndrome…?
He was quieter then usual the following day which made me concerned but seems to have bounced back the next day.
i am so so worried. However feeling that going to GP would be pointless as there is no obvious way to check whether there has been damage apart from the MRI which i wouldnt want to subject my baby to unnecessarily.
Has anyone rocked their baby the same way?

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Tinybirdie · 31/05/2025 22:07

Your baby will not get shaken baby syndrome from what you describe. I remember having similar worries when i took my newborn on a walk over a bumpy path. Looking back, it was a sign of my fragile mental health at the time. You've gone through a massive trauma with childbirth so be kind to yourself and don't hesitate to reach out for support.

ZebraPrintt · 31/05/2025 22:17

For any damage, you'd have to very forcefully shake baby, it's not something you'd do by accident don't worry x

Readytohealnow · 31/05/2025 22:19

Shaken baby syndrome is paramount to injuries caused in a high impact car accident. You cannot cause it accidentally.
Please get some help for your anxiety OP or you won’t enjoy motherhood at all.

nocoolnamesleft · 31/05/2025 22:36

That is not the sort of movement that causes shaken baby syndrome.

legoplaybook · 31/05/2025 22:40

Shaken baby syndrome is not an accidental injury caused by rocking or jiggling - it takes a lot of force.

MovingBird123 · 31/05/2025 23:15

Totally normal to worry about. Not possible from what you've described.

Breastfeeding used to be so painful for me that I needed to watch comedy shows to help. Baby would be wobbling about on the boob as I laughed my head off. I worried I'd shaken her...

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