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Teenager's and Fibromyalgia

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Sezza123123 · 05/05/2025 14:44

Hi has anyone's teenager got Fibromyalgia or has anyone any experience of this, my daughter is 14 and for the last 8 months she has had really bad lower back ache and has said her whole body is just aching she is always tired, she struggles in school with work as she finds it really hard to take learning in, it's not just in school time etc she finds it hard even in school holidays etc she is still the same but it's really starting to affect her day to day life now could this be Fibromyalgia or has anyone experienced anything like this? Thanks

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RowOfDucks3 · 05/05/2025 14:47

Hi, it certainly could be, have you been the gp at all? My son is 13 and has fibromyalgia x

Seeline · 05/05/2025 14:47

It could be lots of things.
Has she had blood tests? Could be anaemia or vitamin deficiency.
Normally Fibromyalgia is only diagnosed when everything else has been ruled out.

Picklechicken · 05/05/2025 14:48

Has she had any bloods done? Lots of autoimmune issues start appearing in teenage years - I have many and this is when I started to suffer. It may be fibromyalgia but make sure you have a full screening for things like hypothyroidism, lupus, adrenal insufficiency, coeliac etc etc as all these things are easier to treat than fibromyalgia.

Alwayswonderedwhy · 05/05/2025 14:51

Fibromyalgia is just an umbrella term, it doesn't really mean anything. It's what you fer diagnosed with it tests haven't shown anything else.
I would push for further investigation in someone so young.

Octavia64 · 05/05/2025 14:55

There are a lot of other things it could also be.

glandular fever is common in teens. Vitamin deficiency also. Long Covid is also a possibility.

they’ll only diagnose Fibromyalgia after the other stuff has been checked out.

LookingForRecommendation · 05/05/2025 15:12

What’s her lifestyle like? Sleep, diet, exercise, habits? These are the first questions that should be asked.

ForRealwhen · 05/05/2025 15:17

Dehydration can also be the cause of backache - it's the kidney's hurting really, but if you're not aware of that as a possibility, it will just feel like a backache.

Just by way of ruling dehydration out, it could take a week or more / longer of consistently upping water (not just any fluids) intake to around several litres a day before you'd notice an improvement - google it! What I suggest here is just off the top of my head ...

Sezza123123 · 05/05/2025 15:17

Yeah we have been to GP lots of times and she has had lots of blood test and all seems to be ok we thought it could have been her periods so go out her on pill this has eased pain in her stomach but still all other symptoms, her sleep and diet are good drinks lots of water, vegetables and fruits etc

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DreamedTheSweetestDreams · 05/05/2025 15:18

Has she had bloods done? It could be something like vitamin d deficiency.

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Sezza123123 · 05/05/2025 15:20

RowOfDucks3 · 05/05/2025 14:47

Hi, it certainly could be, have you been the gp at all? My son is 13 and has fibromyalgia x

How was ur son diagnosed etc and how does it affect him day to day? (If you don't mind) I just keep taking her docs and she has had lots of bloods done etc but just keeps being told to take pain relief which doesn't do anything 😔

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Sezza123123 · 05/05/2025 15:26

Yeah she gets around 10 hours sleep every night and she's still exhausted

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Alwayswonderedwhy · 05/05/2025 14:51

Fibromyalgia is just an umbrella term, it doesn't really mean anything. It's what you fer diagnosed with it tests haven't shown anything else.
I would push for further investigation in someone so young.

This. I’d also start with basics. What’s her weight, sleep, exercise and diet like?

Sezza123123 · 05/05/2025 15:34

Yeah her phone is out her room, she does do a bit of swimming and badminton but after 10 mins of badminton she is exhausted and out of breath, weight is ok

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Grammarninja · 05/05/2025 15:42

Alwayswonderedwhy · 05/05/2025 14:51

Fibromyalgia is just an umbrella term, it doesn't really mean anything. It's what you fer diagnosed with it tests haven't shown anything else.
I would push for further investigation in someone so young.

True. ME, long covid, fibromyalgia are all eye-rollers for GPs. It's a diagnosis in the absence of a diagnosis.

Chewygummy · 05/05/2025 15:43

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Sezza123123 · 05/05/2025 15:45

She does p.e at school, yeah she goes to school no bullying but she finds school hard they have put her on ASD pathway as well now. I haven't mentioned Fibromyalgia to her it was more just a thought to try and find something that could be causing her all these symptoms

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Sezza123123 · 05/05/2025 15:46

It's just worrying as her mum what is causing all these symptoms and not knowing what is causing it

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Sezza123123 · 05/05/2025 15:46

It's just worrying as her mum what is causing all these symptoms and not knowing what is causing it

Depression can cause this type of thing.

Chewygummy · 05/05/2025 15:48

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