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Normal child thinness

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Historyofwolves · 27/02/2025 20:54

This is a weird one.... But does anyone else feel like this?!

For context - we are all slim in my family - I am borderline skinny - , no health issues and we prioritise a healthy diet.

My now 5 year old was a large baby and a chubby toddler (one of those huge toddler tummies). She leaned out over time but kept chubby cheeks and a bit of a tum until well past 4. Now at 5 she has shot up and seems so skinny to me! She's absolutely not scrawny and possibly has a bigger build than many other peers but her ribs and chest bones are much more visible and she has no tummy any more. It just feels so sudden and I occasionally have flashes of worry about cancer, though she is in great health generally! She also seems ravenous at the moment....To make matters worse her 2 year old sibling has the same baby chub she did so the contrast feels intense!

Anyone else feel like this?! Is this just anxiety taking over?

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Springadorable · 27/02/2025 21:10

You are meant to be able to see the ribs of young children. If you can't and they are older than a preschooler but still pre puberty they are probably a bit chubby, so she sounds perfectly healthy.

skkyelark · 28/02/2025 12:12

Nothing you say would worry me, although I understand it's a shock when the transition from chubby toddler to slim child seems to come in one growth spurt. As @Springadorable says, you should see ribs on a healthy child her age.

If you think it would help you, you could measure her weight and height and put it into the NHS bmi calculator for children. Anxiety is a tricky thing, though, so only you can say whether seeing the numbers come out as healthy would help you or not.

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