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Someone kissed my 3 week old with a cold sore, what can I do?!?!

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Applecrumble0110 · 15/12/2024 18:14

So we had a relative (my aunt) visit my baby and we are super close so I happily welcomed her. My baby is 3 weeks old and I'm super tired and had my entire family around when my aunt walked in so I didn't see anything on her lips/face and she held baby and kissed his head twice. It was a few minutes later he needed a nappy change and I saw a cold sore!!! I feel severe panic right now and anxiety. I cleaned babys face and head but is there anything else I can do plz help

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Tortielady · 15/12/2024 19:07

I hope everything is OK with your little one OP. Like pps, I'm surprised someone could forget they had a cold sore. I last had one when I was about ten (many, many years ago) and I'll never forget how sore and nasty it was. What's more, I still get the occasional tingle when I'm a bit run-down. Once you've had one they lie dormant, but they don't really go away.

FernwoodRydal · 15/12/2024 19:07

Sorry this has happened. I don't think there's anything you need to do tonight. You could contact the gp in the morning and they'll likely be reassuring. I'm sure you've already read up on it and will look out for the symptoms.

The reassuring thing is, coldsores are really common but neonatal herpes is rare -that's why it makes the news when babies are affected.

ineedtowomanup · 15/12/2024 19:13

Hi Op as baby is so tiny I would call 111

NewYearNewJob2024 · 15/12/2024 19:21

Hi OP, I totally understand your panic. As you already know from other posts, this can be serious.
Chances are, everything will be fine, but I'd just give 111 a quick call and see what they suggest - it will give you peace of mind then.

Applecrumble0110 · 16/12/2024 11:45

Thanks everyone, called 111 last night and they mentioned what to look out for and checked on baby this morning via phone call. It's been more than 12 hours since the incident and baby shown no symptoms so fingers crossed he's okay x

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Lurkinmn · 11/02/2025 06:49

Hello OP, hope your baby is OK, I have some similar experience, please let me know how your baby was and what did you do?

MxFlibble · 11/02/2025 06:54

Stormyweatheroutthere · 15/12/2024 18:18

So she didn't kiss his lips?. All good then op....

Nope, not all good. You can get herpes anywhere. Mouth is the most common, but I knew someone who's cheek was infected.

Applecrumble0110 · 11/02/2025 23:04

Lurkinmn · 11/02/2025 06:49

Hello OP, hope your baby is OK, I have some similar experience, please let me know how your baby was and what did you do?

Baby is absolutely fine! I called 111 and they said baby has no symptoms so they can't do anything but what to look out for... and luckily... nothing happened at all baby was fine x

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