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Health anxiety - worried something very wrong with my child

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Fullmooncomfort · 01/11/2024 00:54

Please tell me it’s just my awful health anxiety ☹️
my 8 year old has suddenly become very clingy, scared of lots of things and sleeping fitfully with nightmares each night. Been going on a month or 2 now. she’s also had quite a few headaches too. I’ve been trying to brush it off as some anxiety with a new class, but this week at school she got into huge trouble for back talking a teacher and swearing at her - I can’t tell you how out of character this is, she’s normally the most polite, obedient, quiet, sweet girl ever. And I’m not just being her mum saying that, that’s always been feedback from school. For her to swear at a teacher is like me heading into work tomorrow starkers.
i read an article today about a mum who had a little boy die of a brain tumour and his symptoms were sudden clinginess, headaches, nightmares and personality changes. I’m now in a stupid blind Google hole panic that’s what this is.
Please talk me down so I don’t lose the plot, I know rationally it’s extremely unlikely but my little girl feels so different lately and she can’t explain it, In fact when I ask her about any of the above she almost seems surprised. She shrugged off the school incident saying she didn’t do it- she absolutely did- and so she’s lying now too. It’s all just so different ☹️

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TheGirlattheBack · 01/11/2024 02:57

Did she have any illnesses or strep throat a couple of months ago? Take a look at the symptoms of PANS//PANDAS. You don’t necessarily have all the symptoms listed but the sudden onset after an illness is key

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amyshep · 01/11/2024 05:09

I was prepared to say yes it's your health anxiety BUT if her behaviour really is like night and day then I'd definitely monitor it and seek GP and /or schools opinion as there's something clearly going on with her.
Hope you get to the bottom of it, or it settles down by itself

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