Hello, I can provide no help unfortunately but I'm worrying about something very similar at the moment.
Last year we bought a 1957 house and have been renovating it since. Lead was never on my radar until maybe a month ago, and I'm 16 weeks pregnant now.
I stopped all major renovation work when I found out I was pregnant, but for some reason I decided that minor hand sanding of sticky doors would be fine (before I was aware of lead and its hazards) and did that about 2 months ago. Also, the week before I got pregnant I was sanding floors that have (in retrospect) worrying looking red wood stain. Was your wood panelling stained, varnished, or painted?
Now I'm freaking out that doors have lead paint, and the wood stain has lead, and that my levels may have been extremely elevated throughout the first trimester. It's very hard to get doctors to take it seriously. The maternity hospital (in ROI) have never hard of blood lead level tests, and my GP doesn't do it. I've managed to find a private clinic that will do it, and I'm just really hoping that my levels are low.
So, I can't really help, other than to say, you're not the only one who had done it. Why isn't lead paint more commonly talked about?