Two months ago my husband accidentally fractured our five month old son’s femur. While I will forever be extremely unimpressed by this I forgave my husband instantly as he’s a great Dad, not angry, no issues etc. Our hospital discharge papers say ‘no concerns re. non accidental’.
The experience in hospital was extremely distressing. We dealt with a trio of doctors, police and social services. Police were very professional and social services ok but our two main doctors were stony, accusing and cynical. I expected them to be gentle and professional.
The fact my son had a fracture caused by my husband is obviously enough to deal with but amazingly this has ended up being a minor detail compared to how I felt I was received by the doctors and the experience I had in hospital. I am still very easily upset about it to the point I have visited my doctor.
One major thing preventing me from getting over it all is the radiation our son got owing to all the tests the hospital did checking for abuse. They have provided this:
CT Head: 1.3 mSv
CT Chest: 1.9 mSv
Skeletal Survey 0.14 mSv
Total: 3.34 mSV.
(The skeletal led to the chest CT as they thought they could see something but it turned out to be nothing.)
The above will exclude the original xray he got at the after hours clinic that revealed the fracture and led us to hospital. The original xray was of his legs, pelvis and tummy and looks like he got two of those with legs in different positions.
Any experts out there who can please tell me what his excess cancer risk is and be honest about it? Or do I need to get a life?
I am still very teary about the experience especially as I knew no other damage would be found. I wasn’t consulted properly about the tests taking place or radiation and I didn’t understand radiation risk properly at the time. I’ve made a complaint about informed consent which looks like it has gone to the top but It’s pretty much eating away at me so any insights would be appreciated. Thanks, from down in New Zealand.