Yesterday my son (5) fell over at school, he landed on his hand and hurt his little finger. No phonecall or letter home or anything, he only told me once I'd collected him. It was pouring with rain so once we'd picked up his sister from preschool and got in the car I looked at it and it was swollen compared to the other one but there was no bruising. He said it hurt but he could move it.
We then went to pick up DP who works at the hospital, my plan was to take DS in to A&E to get it checked and he could drive home with DD or vise versa. He was totally dismissive, said he didn't need it looked at, we could just strap it at home with tape as that's all they'd do anyway if it was fractured or broken. Made me feel a bit dramatic wanting to get it checked out.
I feel really uncomfortable leaving it, but I don't know if I'm overreacting. Should I take him to A&E?
No walk in centre's here just A&E. DP works at the hospital but not in any kind of medical capacity.