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5 year old claiming to be tired for 5 days..

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KeepingItReal2017 · 07/03/2023 22:57

My 5year old has been complaining of feeling tired for the last 5 days. I can’t figure out it she’s genuine or it’s a game or just something to say for reaction.

started on Friday, she said she had a little sleep at school - yes I need to verify this with the teacher tomo! She wanted to put her pjs on at 4pm, so we let her, but she didn’t go to sleep any earlier than usual despite doing an earlier bedtime for her.

She had about 11-12 hours sleep - a little Sat am lie in for us all until 8am. Then said she didn’t want to go to ballet as was tired & wanted to play with her sister, fine. She came on a good walk, no complaints, lots of playing at home, then announced tiredness & put her PJs on & got into bed… but didn’t remain there long. Again, a regular bedtime or sleeping around 8ish for 11 hours.

sunday was low key - a park play, fun swimming & only mentioned being tired when I said “see she’s fine” and then pretended to sleep in the car. Usual bedtime again.

Mondays announced no tiredness.
Tuesday after school announced tired, put her pjs on at 4pm & played in her bed with her sister. Then usual playing, bedtime as usual.

She is being emotional - but that’s quite normal - ie preferring me, shouting at times. She is eating normally, sleeping normally, playing normally. Just talking about being tired!

how long do I give it before I call a GP? Is she just playing into a new idea of Pjs on in the day? Do other reception age kids complaint or tiredness?

her diet is okay - pescatarian by her choice, some fruit & veg, but currently a bit fussy on that end!

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Jellycats4life · 07/03/2023 23:08

Trust your gut - if she seems totally well in herself and, crucially, isn’t crashing out at odd times of the day, you can be pretty sure that she isn’t tired and is just playing a little game with herself. Maybe she just wants to wear soft comfy clothes.

One thing my daughter did at that age (and older) is become dysregulated and emotional and say “I’m tired!” when asked what was bothering her. It wasn’t tiredness, but she couldn’t think of any other word to explain how she felt.

wobblymum1 · 07/03/2023 23:13

From
what you’ve written about her days and sleep it doesn’t sound like she is actually tired! that’s quite a few activities and she’s not actually sleeping any earlier than she normally would it sounds like.
i think it’s more likely she’s got the idea of “I’m tired” being a phrase/ something to get out of an activity she doesn’t fancy. I’m sure the teacher would have mentioned if she had an actual full on nap at school.
if she’s eating normally/ no temp/is just a bit emotional and saying she’s tired I wouldn’t worry at all.
my dd is going through a phase of saying she feels “sick” but I don’t actually think she does going by her behaviour. But it’s so hard not knowing if they mean it or not! my general go to rule for this age is if they seem ok to you and eating / sleeping/ playing normally enough and no fever theg
are ok and she’s just playing a bit of a “tired” game (and pretending to fall asleep after hearing you say she’s fine would fit with that)

Shoemadlady · 07/03/2023 23:14

Have you tested her for covid? That can make you so very tired but think she needs to be seen by your GP asap for sure x

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