I'd be very grateful to hear any experiences from parents whose babies have been diagnosed with a neurological condition. I've ended up down a bit of a rabbit hole, concerned about my 8.5mo.
He's had investigations done for possible seizures, where his head will quickly drop down to his right shoulder and his right arm will stiffen. He'll have these movements a few times in quick succession, several times in a day. He can go a few days without one, and then it'll start again. It's been going on for a couple of months now and the movements are as distinctive as ever. He has also recently started shaking his head during these episodes, which has only made me more worried.
Other things which are causing me concern, with Dr Google suggesting cerebral palsy ...
- He doesn't weight bear at all. If I try to get him to stand, he'll tip-toe and cross his legs, or he'll extend his legs behind or in front of him.
- He started commando crawling a couple of weeks ago but it's lopsided, he doesn't really extend his right leg much, and doesn't use it to push himself forward.
- He's recently started holding one hand in a fist with the thumb tucked into his palm
- He only ever seems to roll onto one side (left)
- He has a preference for lying on his right side, and has a slightly flattened head as a result. I took him to an osteopath as a newborn who thought this might be due to his position in the womb. Osteopathy helped, but obviously didn't solve the problem!
- He arches his back and throws himself backwards much more frequently than I remember with my eldest. He definitely does it as a protest, but he seems to do it when content as well. He's incredibly strong, and I've come close to dropping him on a few occasions.
He is meeting other milestones though - he rolled early and has been sitting unaided for a couple of months. He's usually content and smiley, and his fine motor skills seem very good.
He's had an MRI scan for the possible seizures which was clear, and is due to be seen for a development review by paed consultant next month. I haven't had a chance to discuss anything else. I'm feeling really anxious about him but I'm not sure whether I'm being neurotic (likely!) or whether all of these symptoms point to something worrying.