Hello all, long term viewer but first time post. My 2 year old DS has ended up in A&E a few times due to illness/viruses that worsen and won’t clear. On one of the occasions he had to stay in for nearly a week with IV antibiotics. On every visit we have a battle trying to get anyone to actually help root cause anything. They are so on their knees that they send everyone home after the 5 hour wait as long as they are not “clinically unwell”.
This time our DS has has diarrhoea for 11 days and then started being sick late last night for the first time but to the point where his body was shutting down and started passing out. We were told by the doctor (Not a peads doctor as they had a shortage) that they are happy for this to go on for longer until they do something and would need major signs before investigating. Most of the NHS advice says not to leave it, yet the doctors are happy for it to drag.
Does anyone else feel like our little ones are being made to get to the point of being very unwell and back in hospital due to no prevention? It seems to be counter intuitive to let people get seriously unwell.
Outside of the A&E visits we are paying privately to try and work out why he can’t shake illnesses off without it always ending up in a hospital visit but struggling to find a cause, so we end up with this vicious circle of hospital battles and 5 hours of our DS being ill laying on the waiting room floor.
I am a very strong willed person and I will fight to ensure we are not fobbed off, however, it’s like talking to a brick wall. My biggest fear is if he then does get to the point of needing urgent attention unless you aren’t breathing the ambulance wait time is 20 hours, if you then choose to drive directly like we did last night, there is no one to even see you at the reception desk.
Interested to know if anyone else feels like they have this battle? I spoke to a lot of parents last night that seemed to feel like they were waiting for 5 hours to just be sent away again.
I have nurses in the family so am very aware of the NHS stretch but every-time I come away they are horrified at the outcome.
Many thanks in advance!