Hello,
I've made another mistake, apparently. I'm supplementing my mother milk with formula milk (despite pumping every three hours, I can only get 90 ml per day so far).
Anyway, I was stupid enough to use boiling water to make the formula milk (Aptamil Pronutra), and then I let it sit in a cold water for a few minutes to let it cool. This is despite my parents already reminded me before to let the boiled water cool down a bit before putting the milk powder in it as not to kill the vitamins in the powder. I forgot about it and did everything automatically (and wrongly!).
So I suppose I have killed all the good nutrients in the formula milk and my baby doesn't get enough vitamins in the first two weeks of his life? This makes me feeling awful.
My infant is today 15 days old. The visiting midwife said just now that it's okay, since he gains weight regularly, and I just need to make the formula milk differently from now on. He now weighs 3900 grams (300 grams more than last week), but maybe she said this just so that I did not go completely bonkers? I got a feeling that I'm the only mother who made this stupid mistake, because it's clearly written on the package too (silly me!). (My husband also missed that, because we live in Germany, and he does not read German).
Is it possible that infants gain weight but they actually do not get enough vitamins? Will this affect his brain and his antibodies or other things I don't know?
Thank you in advance!