@SiSeniora
You can read info on it on nhs or other reputable websites.
Ask your son if he wants to wear glasses or suffer through. They are free for children so i dont know why you are so hesitant.
It will gradually get worse with age.
Astigmatism tends to run in families so im surprised at your reaction.
I have been googling what astigmatism is so I am not just here asking people what I should do.
The optician more or less said (I'm paraphrasing) that glasses might be good idea, but wouldn't really matter if you didn't get them, might help his vision, might not make any difference to him that he notices, could be hassle for him, might get headaches if he doesn't get them but equally might not and if he does get them or doesn't get them the astigmatism could improve of it's own accord either way (no certainty it will get worse with age or if he doesn't get glasses.
Basically the optician was so vague I was left with lots of questions but no answers.
On my side of the family no-one has ever needed glasses in childhood, only when well into middle age (I'm 44 and don't need them), my DH doesn't wear them (He's adopted so no idea what his family side would be like), so no experience in the family of using glasses as a child.
Until we went into the opticians my son believed his vision was perfect, he is definitely not suffering and doesn't get headaches or anything, I asked his teachers who said they can't see him struggling to see the board etc.
So my hesitation is because I hear that having glasses can be a pain in the bum so if he doesn't need them it seems silly to saddle him with that hassle/responsibility. Also if his eye muscles are 'helped' will that weaken them? With other muscles of the body not using them causes them to weaken (perhaps this is a silly question I don't know).
I obviously want to choose what is best for his eyes, so wondered if anyone here had anecdotes/experience that could help me frame my thinking before I jump either way.