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9 year old with dizziness and persistent blocked nose

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actiongirl1978 · 19/08/2019 09:42

My DS has had a persistent blocked nose for about 4 months, occasionally runny, more often just sounds dry and blocked, sounds like a cork has blocked his nose when he lies in bed at night.

In addition for the last 9 months has complained of feeling dizzy and sick.

He started last year being sick on the way to school daily, we put it down to anxiety and after a doctor's appointment to rule out any physical issues had a referral to a psychiatrist and then psychologist. He had 4 sessions with the latter but refused to keep going and it was too distressing for everyone to keep making him go.

Additionally psychiatrist mentioned testing for HFA in his report and we are about to start that process with the NHS after several months of trying to decide what to do.

Over the last few months he has refused to go into the assembly hall as it makes him dizzy (we thought he'd just felt sick once and associated the feeling each time). He has phases of terrible diarrhea and spitting in the car if he is going somewhere such as the barber's and very often just refuses to go out.

This morning I suggested taking him swimming and he has spent 30 mins saying he would then wouldn't go as it makes him feel dizzy in the changing rooms/pool.

We have come up with numerous strategies to help him cope but he is v stubborn and gets himself wrapped up in the problem.

So I don't know if it is associated with anxiety and the permanent blocked nose is a red herring or if it's connected to his balance.

But he refuses to go to the doctor - the last time I got him there by carrying him to the car howling and he was violently sick before we went in (the smells make him sick).

Does anyone have any ideas? Thanks!

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actiongirl1978 · 23/08/2019 21:00

Hi all, just wanted to update.

Got to the gp today who was sensational and came out to him in the carpark after hearing him screaming the place down and running away from me..

He has a polyp in his nose and a dull ear drum - which could account for the dizziness. We have been prescribed a nasal steroid, which DS refuses to consider, so I'm going to have to wait until he is properly asleep to squirt up his nose each night.

Thanks again for all your advice!

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Herocomplex · 23/08/2019 21:09

action that’s great news. How old is your son, I can’t see if you’ve said?

I think you need to get some help with strategies to improve his co-operation. It’s sounds so exhausting what you’re going through at the moment, and he’s not getting proper treatment for his needs as things stand.

Is he in a ordinary school? Do they use strategies for helping him adapt to change? Or is he compliant with routines at school?

actiongirl1978 · 23/08/2019 21:14

Hi he's generally great at school once he is in there. Beautiful behaviour always. Struggles with concentration but school have worked on that all year and it's really improved.

He spends time with a member of staff who assists with SEN and he talks about his anxiety or feelings but I'm not sure you deal with change resistance.

School are fab, it's an independent school and their pastoral care is brilliant.

I'm not sure what I can do. Carrots or sticks don't work, I think I could have offered him a giant Lego set of his choice today and he still would have refused to go in.

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actiongirl1978 · 23/08/2019 21:19

Oh and he is 9 about to go into Yr5

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Elieza · 23/08/2019 21:52

My ex couldn’t stand the smell of pet food in Petsmart. A bit of Vicks rubbed just under the nose meant all he could smell was minty menthol Vicks. We found out by accident when he had the cold and we went shopping. So if your son likes a menthol smell you could try it too if he would tolerate that. Or even some of dad’s aftershave above his top lip? If it’s strong enough he will smell nowt else in a medical place like a dentists. And if he copies his dad in stuff then wearing aftershave may be acceptable. Just before you go in so it’s still strong.

Herocomplex · 23/08/2019 22:04

God I’m so dim, it says 9 in your title...

I wondered if it was the unexpected that is worrying him, that maybe if he knew what was coming he might feel more in control?

Go into the surgery, take a photo of every stage of the visit, the receptionist, the waiting room etc. And go through it on an iPad until he’s familiar.

Herocomplex · 23/08/2019 22:08

Lots of children who are sensitive to change feel more in control if they understand the progress of events.

justilou1 · 23/08/2019 23:14

Well.... that’s great!!! Could have been many much worse things!!! I’m so sorry that “routine” things are so hard for you two, OP. I hope that next time it’s not so stressful for you both! X

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