Hi there,
I would very much like to hear people's experiences of precocious puberty, as I am very worried about my daughter.
She is 6.5 years old. About a year and a half ago, we noticed (when helping her wipe her bottom after a poo) a dark hair around her bum (back bottom). I thought nothing of it because there just seemed to be the one.
A few months ago, around April I think, I noticed that there were several of these hairs when my daughter got out of the bath. So I took her to the GP. The GP said it was nothing to worry about because the hairs were at the back, not the front.
But a few weeks ago, some hairs began to appear on her vulva as well. Definitely pubic hairs. I contacted the same doctor (at our surgery, you have to email them first). She emailed back to say it was probably nothing to worry about it if it was just one hair. I replied again to say it was more than one hair (there is one very noticeable one, and two or three finer, less dark ones, but definitely also pubic hairs). This GP then replied to say she would refer my daughter to a different GP for a second opinion.
I am glad I pushed, because the second GP decided that she needed to be referred to the paediatric endocrinologist at the hospital. I had mixed feelings about this...glad they were checking it out further (as I felt the first GP, although nice enough, had dismissed my concerns) but also really worried about what might be happening and why.
The doctor thought she could possibly feel one breast bud. This is not something I have noticed, but I don't really like pressing hard on that area like she was - it feels wrong! My daughter doesn't have any underarm hair or body odour, but I have noticed recently that I have to wash her hair more often (at least twice a week, when once a week was okay before). It gets greasy otherwise. Also, she has quite a few very small pimples/bumps on her forehead and t-zone and she is very moody sometimes, with mood swings, but I am not sure if this is just normal behaviour or not.
We got the appointment letter through today and it is when we are on holiday, right at the start of a 3 week holiday in fact. I called the hospital to reschedule and they were not able to, but then the person on the other end of the phone said "Oh, I see this is an urgent referral - I will speak to my colleague and see what we can do, and we will call you back today."
I'm of course now really worried that it was an urgent referral, as I had no idea until now. Does anyone have any experiences to share or words of advice/reassurance? Were you referred urgently? Is this just standard when they suspect precocious puberty? I am really quite scared, especially if we cannot get an appointment before we go away. This means it will be nearly September by the time she is seen, and if there is anything sinister going on (I have read about brain and ovarian tumours), that feels like too long to wait.