Today DD, age 5 1/2, had a scan, and the radiographer measured her bladder and kidneys.
Her right kidney is smaller than normal, and her left is larger than normal. Her bladder doesn't hold a lot of urine before urgency (and accidents) and she doesn't empty it all the way.
She has had a few UTIs over the past 12 months, so this could be the result of chronic low-level infection I believe.
But looking back, I don't think she has ever been properly toilet trained; she started using the potty at 19 months or so, and I supported her with reminders, help with clothes, etc. As she got older I reduced my assistance in line with what I perceived to be her abilities, but she always had accidents. She still has accidents, averages about 4-5 per day.
We thought it was down to constipation, but she's been on movicol for a year and really doesn't struggle with that anymore (although we are still keeping at it, because without a scan/x-ray of her bowels we can't be sure).
If anyone has similar health issues with their DC, I'd be interested to hear. What can the specialists do? Would there be blood tests involved? Medications? How serious is this?