because it is my kids I’m thinking about I want to make an informed decision rather than blindly trust one side or another.
There isn't an other side, there is medicine and quacks.
Listening to the 'other side' or anti vax is like going to a conference on child protection and then saying, "OK but what do the paedophiles think?"
There has been plenty of evidence of mistakes on both.
No there is not, there was one huge mistake made by Andrew Wakefield who, guess what, had just patented a single jab and made a fortune.
If you don’t know what I’m talking about, I suggest it is you who should start researching.
Where are you researching? How old are the journals you are reading from? Are you reading UK publications?
Do you realize that when the vaccines are combined they have fewer antigens than the singles? That vaccines are continually developed?
Giving single doses does three things, leaves the child vulnerable for longer, gives them higher doses of antigens and gives higher doses of the other chemicals used to keep the vaccine working. The stuff the antivaxers love to go on about.