Hi,
I just need to put this in words, expect long and rambling...
I have 2 DD's 4y & 8m. My youngest has had a high temperature for the past few days and seemed to be in pain, not sleeping, so I took her to the drs yesterday and they said she had a red sore throat. Just to give calpol when needed and gave me a leaflet on signs of sepsis. I had no worries yesterday about this. After a few awful nights of sleep, last night was a little better and I felt DD was on the mend.
Today, however, she has had periods of being her usual happy fine self but also some longer than normal naps, drinking less milk, less wet nappies, mottled skin on legs, cold hands and feet and now tonight at bedtime (after calpol) a low temp of 35.5. All of the above symptoms came and went throughout the day & by the time my husband came home from work he felt she was fine; she drank her bedtime bottle, ate a bit of dinner, had a decent wet nappy, didn't feel cold and legs looked fine. So he's not worried and now fast asleep. I am now sitting here panicking that I am ignoring this 'mother's instinct' we are supposed to have!? But on the flip side telling myself to stop overreacting!
I guess I need logical thoughts. I have rechecked her temp 4 times, she has slept through it all, it has stayed the same 35.5. Sepsis stuff says anything below 36 is bad? But if I hadn't taken her temp just to check before bed I would've just thought she was fine now and getting over her sore throat as she is now sleeping so well.
If it was sepsis would things like mottled skin and less urine come and go or would it remain and get worse?
I know if I call 111 they will probably say go to out of hours GP because they wouldn't want to risk it. I, of course, don't want to risk it either however, I feel like this is more my anxiety than a real medical emergency.
But what if I'm wrong and something bad happens.... oh god, I hate this!!
So sorry for the humongous post. Not sure what I'm expecting. I always go to the worst case scenario in my head & then Google makes it worse! Does anyone else find it hard to sleep with worry about their LO's??