Hey everyone,
I'm wondering if you can provide your advice/support/words of wisdom/thoughts on the following...
I have a beautiful 4 year old boy who has been suffering from warts since the age of 2! He initially had a small blister like growth in the top of his hand (we didn't have a clue what it was) but was eventually diagnosed as a wart by our gp. They provided a paint which made no difference and over about 6 months he hot another on his thumb. He sucked his thumb and we tried the yucky nail varnishes to try and stop him but this failed and so I spent months trying to find a plaster that would not come off with him sucking his thumb. I eventually found an athletes tape which was super sticky and started to use that.. I had been to the doctors a number of times up to this point to attempt to get them removed as I was concerned over them spreading. They would not treat or refer him due to his age and the warts being purely cosmetic.
He eventually got one under his lip line due to the thumb sucking. At this point we had tried a number of over the counter gels And even herbal remedies.. this was particular difficult due to his age (He would cry or not sit still when I tried to apply them which was awful for us all). Eventually he got referred and we then went to an appointment to be told they would not touch them again due to his age and the fact they were only cosmetic.
I eventually took him to a private dermatologist as he got another on his index finger and my concerns were growing over them spreading even more. The dermatologist was reluctant to help again due to his age and tried once to do cryrotherapy but sensed it would be too distressing and stopped after seconds.
Currently my son goes to bed with a plaster and a bandage on his thumb to avoid him sucking the wart. One wart has reacted well the the treatment gels however he has 2 more beginning to form. He is now being seen by our private dermatologist on the nhs who still refuses to do cryrotherapy due to traumatizing him. She has however referred him for an operation on his lip where he will be asleep whilst they remove.
She will no longer assist with his hands as feels that she cannot do a anything else and I don't think she partciaulry wants to.
I am due to visit a new private dermatologist on Tuesday who has agreed that she would be happy to carry out cryrotherapy on my son using a numbing cream.
He starts school.in September and I am desperate to get rid of them out of fear he may become self conscious or be teased. Also I am concerned how they could continue to spread leaving this impossible to treat if we do not get rid of them now.
He is sensitive and I dread the day he tells me that somebody has said something nasty to him.
I am particularly careful about hiding my feelings about them (even though it is breaking my heart) and we call them his spots to avoid him feeling bad about himself, particularly as the term warts are often used to describe ugly witches and even the gruffalo at his pre school.
My question to you all really is..
As parents.. what would you do?
I spend half my time feeling guilty about wanting these gone? Am I being selfish? Would you put your child through cryrotherapy which could be painful and some say traumatizing to a child.. to protect them them further spreading and potential teasing in the future?
He is my only child and he is so precious. I just want these to be a thing of the past for us all 😔