About 2 years ago when my son was 4 I took him to the doctors. He wobbled and fell over all the time, ran with a very peculiar lopsided gait when he got tired (often turning “sideways” and leading with his stronger side), his hamstrings and tendons on one leg were tight and general muscle strength was low. I showed the doc a video of him running and he referred him straight away. The specialist we saw reviewed my notes and watched him, and diagnosed very mild cerebral palsy. DS was a VLBW (very low birth weight) baby, as my uterine artery failed when I was pregnant. Whilst pregnant I was told to prepare for lots of possible outcomes, including learning delay and cerebral palsy. DS was born tiny but went to the 50th centile in 6 months and has stayed there for weight and height ever since. He’s also bright so until this diagnosis we thought we’d been very lucky.
DS was sent for physio as his main problem was right side weakness. It was also recommended that he play lots of sport. We’ve been doing the exercises (daily) and lots of sport (at least an hour a day) for nearly 2 years now, and TBH I think perhaps a mistake has been made. DS is fine. He’s a good football player now (junior team), a reasonable tennis player and completes junior parkrun every week coming bang in the middle of what’s expected for his age group. He doesn’t get tired anymore and absolutely no one who sees him now can see any problem. When I mention the diagnosis to people as he belts past they look at me like I’m mad.
My question is: could a mistake have been made? I think the doctor looked at wobbly DS and the fact that everyone assumed he would have problems after birth, and jumped to an easy conclusion, helped by the fact that my health insurance paid for everything so I wasn’t taking up NHS resources. I think DS could just have been a bit slower developing coordination and strength possibly caused by his VLBW status but the exercises and the sport have obviously worked really well. I feel a complete fraud having this diagnosis on his record and in fact think this could have a negative impact on him. His startled PE teacher had to come and have a bizarre chat to me as it showed up on his school record.
My question is- is it possible a mistake was made? Should I go and get him re-assessed? I’m obviously planning on keeping a close eye on him and maintaining all the exercise. (In fact, all the obsessive taking him to do sport has meant that in a family of sedentary readers we now have a sports mad child!) I just think it’ll cause issues later on if he has to keep declaring it on forms etc. Finally, am I deluding myself and could problems come again later on in life?