My ds is 5 and has never managed to reliably toilet train. About a year ago we identified he was constipated and used movicol (were living abroad so worked it out ourselves), never really got on with it - would have 4-5 good days, an explosion and then 3-4 days of diarrhoea and would stop using it.
After a few months, moved to lactulose and have gone through good and bad phases with it. It was particularly bad in spring through the end of June, at which point we went up to 10ml a day and were referred to paediatrician.
At the same time as upping to 10ml, also went gluten free and have had a brilliant 8 weeks, gone from 2-3 poo in pants and 4-5 wet pants a day to 2-3 a week. (He is also dairy and soya free from birth due to allergy)
Used private health care and saw paediatrician this week, he moved us back to movicol, started 2 sachets a day since Wednesday and it's been awful ever since.
Paediatrician said to let it settle and then go up or down to 1-3 sachets a day as maintenance dose.
We can't go out as he is wetting/pooing constantly. It's now 2pm and he has had 4 wet pants and 3 dirty pants today. His behaviour and mood is absolutely vile and he is food hunting constantly
I've read various things about movicol so I get that it needs to let the bowel unstretch and that these effects were expected but I didn't realise it was going to be so bad. Ds had just started to get his confidence back and I'm having a wobble as to whether to stick this out.
We go away tomorrow (luckily we have a washing machine there!) and just know it's going to be a shower of shit all week.
So now you know the life story, I'd appreciate any words of wisdom - how long could this go on for? Should we be sticking it out or going back to lactulose? Stay on 2 sachets or drop to 1? When will he get some form of bowel and bladder control back?