Ds is nearly 7, he has complex health meeds and disabilities. He is under the paediatric service and see a continence nurse for his problems with toileting and constipation.
He has been on movicol for over 3 years, and has been in a cycle of..... no poo for a week....hard woodchip like bits for a week (with stomach pain and horrendous smell).... Large amounts of thick slurry for a week......back to no poo for a week. Ad infinitum.
He gets really bad stomach ache, bloating, gas, a smell like mothballs. His weight is dropping, not huge amounts, but it remained static for a while, and he has recently gone down a centile (to 9th centile) he looks pale, dark eyed and is often very tired.
His diet is restricted due to sensory issues (he see a dietician), so I am aware his diet doesn't help his constipation, it is also very difficult to get him to drink enough. He was prescribed soluble fibre, but it is difficult to get it into him, he refuses anything like sennakot. He also has reflux, for which he is prescribed lansoprazole.
We just seem to be going in circles, his continence nurse was due to see him last month, but cancelled due to illness and no replacement appointment has been made. His paed says he needs to stick to movicol and we need to sit him on a toilet daily (he is in nappies) - rather ignoring the fact that he is extremely resistant to going into the toilet and trying to get him to sit on it is similar to wrestling an angry tiger. The continence nurse disagrees with this advice and says until ds is doing one normal poo a day there is no point in trying to get into a toilet routine and broach the nappies.
I feel like we are trapped in a cycle and the advice we are being given is getting us nowhere. In the middle of it all is poor ds. I asked our gp for a referral to a paediatric gastroenterologist, and in a long roundabout referral system have ended up with an appointment with his normal paed!
I know this is like the illiad of posts about poo, but honestly I don't know what to do next - any ideas of who we could turn to?