My DS had his scrotum looked at the day after he was born by a Neonatal surgeon as the midwives thought something wasn't right and he said that both testicles were in the scrotum but he had a hydrocele.
At the 6 week check the GP didn't really examine the scrotum/testicles she just commented on the hydrocele diagnosis, shone a light through his scrotum to make sure it penetrated through both sides and then told me to come back in 12-18 months if the hydrocele was still present.
As he grew his scrotum continued to look uneven/misshaped but I assumed it to be in keeping with a hydrocele but when things still hadn't changed when DS was 15 months I contacted the GP. I spoke to the GP over the phone who referred me for a scan and put in a referral to the paediatric surgeon.
The purpose of the scan was to assess the volume of fluid in the hydrocele but after a very long scan (by two different people scanning him) they told me there wasn't a hydrocele and in fact the reason the scrotum looked misshaped was because there was actually only one testicle and that despite vigorous scanning they couldn't locate the other one. I was shocked, overwhelmed and very upset. I just wasn't expecting to hear that news and it absolutely winded me and I was in tears. I don't understand how the mistake was made?
I then saw the paediatric surgeon about a month later who said he wanted to refer DS to another surgeon instead of him (because of the testicle being missing as opposed to just needing a simple orchidopexy) and I then had to wait another 6 weeks to see that one.
When I saw that surgeon he said that DS would be operated on as an urgent case but that he was hopeful he would find the testicle and be able to bring it down. Despite being assured the surgery would be done within 8 weeks it actually didn't happen for over 4 months and that was only because I chased and chased and chased them.
Following the surgery the Consultant did his ward round and said he'd located the testicle but it was too damaged, it hadn't developed and so it was removed. I was so upset, I couldn't believe it.
It keeps going around and around in my head, the confusion as to how this happened? I constantly question whether had they got the right diagnosis in the first place and treatment had been done when DS was much younger then could all this have been presented and his testicle need never have been removed 
I feel constantly tormented.