Hi all
Just looked at 10mo DD2's bits while changing her nappy and realised she has no middle hole ie there is no opening to her vagina 
I think it is probably labial fusion which I have read about on MN before (she has a line where the opening should be, and she seems to have all the other bits in place, and I am pretty sure I remember her having vaginal discharge when she was smaller so think it may have happened quite recently?). But it could be imperforate hymen which is a bit more serious.
(So glad I read about it on MN otherwise I'd be properly freaked out now)
I am going to take her to the GPs of course as soon as i can. I will be asking for a referral to a specialist to check exactly what it is and that everything is ok internally.
Has anyone got a name for a good specialist in this field? We are in London.
Thank you