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please help- 4yo having accidents- I have convinced myself he is diabetic....

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susannahmoodie · 28/12/2015 21:50

I have convinced myself that my 4yo is diabetic and I am worried sick about it.

He is 5 in January and started reception in September. Pretty much since then he started having accidents at school....coming home wet most days and his teacher hadn't noticed. He isn't drenched, more like a dribble and he says he just doesn't make it in time....but he is sometimes having accidents at home too, (he has been better over Xmas hols but today he has had two accidents- dh puts this down to being at grandparents with lots of cousins and lots of excitement etc) and at around the time he started school we had to start lifting him at night as he was wetting the bed. He had previously been dry since he was about 2.5.

We have taken him to the Drs and have asked hv for advice when she came out to do 2 year check for ds2. Dr took urine samples to check for sugar and infection and both came back clear. He said it sounds like he has developed an aversion to toilet since starting school, and the bed wetting could be linked to this too. You can tell from his facial expression when he needs to go but it is as if he is trying to hold it.

The hv said it might be to do with his water intake- he takes a water bottle to school everyday- it always comes back full but the TA said that they get filled up- however, the other day we put juice in it as an experiment and it came back full of juice, which makes us think he is only having milk at snack time and a drink with lunch during day- but what worries me is that at bedtime he will sometimes say he is thirsty and ask for a drink- my husband says this is just a stalling tactic like tonight there was lots going on and he didn't want to go to bed, but combined with the toilet issues it makes me worry about diabetes....

The only thing is with most of the stuff I have read it says symptoms would develop quickly whereas this has been going on since sept....can any one enlighten me as to what to do?

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t1mum · 04/01/2016 09:02

Whilst I agree that the OP's DS probably has an aversion to using the loo at school rather than Type 1 diabetes, I don't think anyone on the internet can rule it out. The urine test used by the GP is not the best indicator and signs can come on gradually over several weeks before it gets to the crisis point where it is very obvious.

OP, if you DS continues to have issues with toileting, and if you see signs of fatigue, weight loss and/or excess hunger and increased drinking, please do take him back to the GP and ask for a finger prick test to determine his blood sugar and HBA1C. I'm sure your DS is fine, but it is good to be aware.

If anyone had the time to sign this petition about the signs of Type 1 Diabetes in children, that would be great petition

Boogers · 04/01/2016 09:18

Hi Susannah, DD was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes 15 months ago. She was 5 at the time. She'd experienced urinary urgency and frequency for several months beforehand but we thought it was an issue with school toilets, and it wasn't until she became very tired suddenly one weekend that it clicked something was wrong. We took a urine sample to the doctors who tested it while we were in the consulting room and it came back with +++ketones, and she was admitted to hospital immediately.

If your GP has tested for this please be reassured. If your DS becomes tired or listless or craves sweets and drinks uncharacteristically these are warning signs that you should take him back to the GP. I'm not sure what the problem might be if diabetes and a UTI have been ruled out, but maybe keep a diary of symptoms and accidents to see if there's a pattern of accidents.

Used2bthin · 04/01/2016 10:12

My Dd had the leaking in between toilet visits too around starting school . Turned out to be something related to a pre existing issue that your DS won't have but before that she was diagnosed with an overactive bladder and the advice for that was to drink plenty , regularly so the urinary nurse gave us a plan for how much she should drink over how many hours. It's a common issue and not serious but there are ways it can be helped . of course I've no idea if this is the same thing but thought it worth mentioning. Hope it gets sorted soon.

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